The Gain-Loss Theory Of Social Media

Improved Essays
This study found the gain-loss theory of attraction is applicable and holds true when social media is used as the initial judgment platform. Subjects significantly rated their likeness of confederates who had a negative profile higher than those with a positive one after meeting them in person. The implications of this are critical in today’s world for many reasons. First, this study undermines the entire online dating industry, which is heavily scrutinized as it is. These services claim to be able to match people together through magic love algorithms and they will be compatible. Their business model has customers searching for the best, most compatible, and most positive profiles in searching for love. Our study contradicts this model of …show more content…
First, subjects were all college-aged students with psychological backgrounds. While using an age of subjects that are functional social media experts gives this study more internal validity, it may prove differently had we used the oft highly opinionated moms and grandmothers on Facebook, or conversely with high school and middle school aged children. Another limitation we faced was the ability to control for the face-to-face conversation. Subjects were given the listed topics to guide discussion but it is difficult to control for subject matter and keeping the confederates character or aura the same throughout each discussion. There certainly could have been some self-reporting bias involved as well with each questionnaire. Finally, the subjects own thoughts on social media personality could not be controlled for, as every subject reported having their own social media presence when asked. Depending on their view on how important social media is, or if they had previously had a positive or negative experience in meeting someone through social media, this could add or take weight to how much the subjects rated their initial likeness towards …show more content…
By bridging the gap between gain-loss and social media literature, I believe it opens the door for further studies concerning this topic. It would be interesting to see a study done on gain-loss on dating websites and how effective it may be. The problem lies therein in that no one would want to go on a date with someone they have any negative feelings toward based off their online profile. Another area that deserves attention is the connection between the amounts of influence someone has on social media vs. in real life. There are some people who are considered “Instagram famous”, with thousands of dedicated followers, but they are nothing more than a normal person outside of the social media world. If a similar study was done in which amount of followers or influence was used as the independent variable the results could be significant and serve as another piece of the puzzle as to why we feel the things we do based off only judging someone through a social media

Related Documents

  • Decent Essays

    The Novel “the Circle “ by Dave Eggers was published in 2003 in New York. The given excerpt deals with a discussion of an ex couple, about the abuse of social media. In the following I'm going to outline the view of Mercer on the abuse of social media . Mercer does not have a positive view on social media , because they are often abused to upload wrong information or to harm other social media users.…

    • 219 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Decent Essays

    “Love, Internet Style” is an outgoing article that can make one question if what they are doing romantically is correct. The author brings up many good points to back up his side of the argument. Brooks wrote this article in order to convince readers that online dating could be the key to strengthen courtship. Some readers might believe Brooks successfully used rhetorical strategies to prove his point, but in my case I believe he did not. I personally feel that with some of the points made he had no clue what he was talking about.…

    • 365 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Superior Essays

    On dating profiles, people find matches who have some of the same characteristics as them and they end up matching together perfectly. This would make it easier to talk to the person because you know what you have in common. Love is difficult to find, but at least there are newer ways of attaining it. Dating sites are not the only new aspects of love in today’s society. There is a difference in views, and how people act around each other.…

    • 1195 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    A Bias Take on a Controversial Discussion Social media is something that we use in our day to day lives, but have we ever sat down and thought about how it has shaped our actions and personalities? Carrie Kerpen, the CEO of Likeable Media, dives into how we have developed and grown around social media in her article How Has Social Media Changed Us? Kerpen discusses with other strong figures in social media about what we post, and why we post it. She feels that is important to understand the impact that social media has on our personal brands.…

    • 854 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Brilliant Essays

    Works Cited Culbreth, J. (2015). The boomers' guide to online dating. Emmaus, Pa: Rodale. Fein, E. & Schneider, S. (2014). The rules for online dating capturing the heart of Mr. Right in cyberspace.…

    • 123 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Brilliant Essays
  • Improved Essays

    While research about the relationship between Instagram followers and their friendships in real life, is inconclusive, research about one’s portrayal of themselves on Instagram and how they see themselves in real life proved to be more relative. A person’s portrayal of himself or herself on Instagram directly correlates to how they think of themselves in real life. Users tend to have unrealistic views of themselves on their social media platforms and in their life outside of the app. Users of social media tend to create a persona that only represents the best versions of themselves. While they keep their own identities, they exaggerate the good and minimize the bad qualities of themselves.…

    • 1709 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Some choices lead to positive paths, others to negative paths. Despite the kind of choices we make, our lives are intricate webs of little moments that are all connected together to make the big moments possible. Relationships form in many different ways. In today’s society, we have dating websites, dating apps, and social…

    • 1137 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    How do you portray yourself on social media? Do you depict who you truly are? Social networking services like Facebook allows users to create profiles, share photos and videos, and send messages to friends, family, and acquaintances. These social networking sites also allow users to make important announcements or state of mind for their friends. Social networking allows users to effortlessly add new people to their friend list that can add up to thousands of friends.…

    • 1591 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Great Essays

    A person’s love life is preferably determined by a dating match sites issue which has turned into a trusted solution for a single lady to find their love relationship partner especially during Valentine’s season where it is an ideal opportunity to be on high alert for possible lovers’ scams. People that are attempting to develop a relationship via online dating services and social groups are prime focuses for identity thieves who know how to prey upon the vulnerabilities of those looking for love relationships (Chaplin, 2013). It is strongly advised that individuals who are looking for online love relationship ought to have protect their heart and identity from lovers’ scams by preventing from revealing excessive amount of personal information at an early stage. A past survey authorized by Protect My ID (2013) determined that a high percentage of people joining the online dating fail to properly examine potential match before participating in communication. There are several precautionary steps that can be practiced before love fades into financial and identity…

    • 2105 Words
    • 9 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Great Essays

    Social media provides the opportunities of talking through status updates, pictures, videos etc. but the disadvantage is people use this way of communication as an alternative to one on one conversations. Even though Facebook and other social media websites are used as an effective tool to most users, it often may be distant from the true personality and character of the individuals involved ("Social media and symbolic…

    • 1499 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Great Essays

    Social media is defined by Merriam Webster as forms of electronic communication through which users create online communities to share information, ideas, personal messages, and other content. (Merriam-Webster, 2011). The recent popularity of social media and related technologies has had a negative effect on the mental well being of adolescent users due to the addictions and unrealistic expectations that social media creates. The “like” system panders to users’ needs for validation, which reinforces self -centered thoughts and behaviors. Sites, such as Facebook and Twitter, add more complications and expectations to the lives of users because they compare themselves to others, which can fuel feelings of inadequacy.…

    • 1494 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    A major problem arising in preteens, teens and young adults is the increasing use of social media and the impact it has been playing on their self-confidence. For as long as there have been strong influencers in society, there has been the issue of comparison. People have judged themselves based off how others appear since before there was even a television to showcase them, but with the increase of smartphones and the internet, so came the increase of something else far more harmful for this issue of comparison, social media. Social media, as a whole, gives a single person access to millions of other people and increases the pressure to appear flawless on their accounts. In the article “How Social Media is a Toxic Mirror”, published by Rachel Simmons in Time Magazine, Simmons’ main idea is how social media has become a method of directly comparing yourself to others based purely on what is posted on the internet.…

    • 1067 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The ability to create a profile and communicate with other people around the world has become a popular trend. People spend so much time on social media that they do not have the time to actually go out to meet a soul mate. Online dating sites have led people to believe that love is having things in common. However, love should not be determined by compatibility. Online dating can be convenient for those who have jobs and children.…

    • 878 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    In todays society we have an narcissistic epidemic in the making. A very large portion of our population is now connecting and socializing through social networking sites (SNS) and it’s changing the way we view and promote ourselves. With all of our “reality” TV starts and “selfie” obsession this hardly can come as a shock. The Millennial groups use of social media sites like Facebook, Twitter and Instagram has become an overwhelming part of their day to day life. Our current generations is so involved with social networking sites that it’s given us more insight on how these sites can affect ones development.…

    • 1300 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Online Dating Theory

    • 1490 Words
    • 6 Pages

    Finkel et al (2012) conducted a study that discredits online dating and recommends that people meet personally before they can develop liking for each other and eventually fall in love. On one hand, they agree that online dating brings forth a large pool of individuals from which to choose but, on the other hand, they also argue that such a large number will reduce the motivation to commit to a single person. Although the study focused on how online dating influences individuals mindsets, it was not conducted on the dating parties but rather interviewed operators of dating services. It effectively answered the question as to whether people should shift to online dating rather than the traditional forms of courtship and established that online…

    • 1490 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays