The Five Languages Of Love Analysis

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The Five Languages of Love Project
When we enter into a new intimate relationship first and foremost we do it because of that physical attraction, then we enter the “in-love” stage. On this stage we felt that we belonged with each other (page. 32), we would do anything and everything for the other person, and it was fantastic until this started wearing off. The “love tank” starts to feel empty. It means that the person does not feel love for or from their partner and this mainly starts happening to married couples. Can the love tank be fill up again? Or it is time for the couple to give up and look for new partners. Gary Chapman has given different couples therapy and marriage counseling throughout the years. By the understanding of The Five Languages of Love he has helped countless couples to get their love tank full again and revive that love they believed was lost. The idea for this activity is having Bianca experience each language of love with her husband. Bianca had to read the book before starting the project so that she would have an idea of what to do on each activity. Here is the plan for
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The last time Bianca and Luis went grocery shopping Bianca stayed with him all the way; this was something he was not expecting, he usually takes his phone out but when he saw the subject putting the groceries on the band his facial expressions were too funny. Especially because he was trying to act normal and not acknowledge that Bianca was doing something that he likes. He even reach out to hold the subjects hand. On their way back to their car the subject’s husband never cared to see how much they spent on that trip to the grocery store. After that visit to the store the subject realized that her husband was not complaining about the amount spent at the store, but he was upset about her not being there with him. Since that day every time they go to the store she stays with him. Therefore, she has a happy

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