The Destruction Of My American Dream

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A normal life is the teenage “American Dream”, however, not everyone is privileged enough to even dream about it. Then you have me, I didn’t have the typical life or even dreamed about one, but the life i do have is what made me the adaptable, confident, and outgoing person I am today. Everyone has reasons why they are and act a certain way, most of the time they blame the negative aspects on their past. However, I feel that the good and bad on my past but in the end it transitioned myself from an average teen to an extraordinary teen who is fully prepared for life.

I was born an Army dependent child, moving from place to place but mainly during my childhood years. Between the ages of six months and twelve, i’ve experienced the typical Army

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