A loaded assumption can entice defensive thoughts. The use of aggressive words and assumptions lead to people formulating their own opinions about the matters discussed. An assumption is someone’s opinion (Bohm 8). The meaning of the assumptions leads to the formulation of defensive thinking. Therefore, to override the brain’s tendency to jump to defensive thinking a person must suspend their own judgement about the assumption (Yankelovich 45). Disengaging the emotional response leads to searching for the context and meaning behind the assumption. David Bohm, in his book, On Dialogue, describes suspending assumptions as, “You don’t believe them, nor do you disbelieve them; you don’t judge them as good or bad” (20). Suspending a person’s own thoughts prevents individualized judgements from derailing the point of the dialogue taking place. The dialogue conversation can then transform into collective
A loaded assumption can entice defensive thoughts. The use of aggressive words and assumptions lead to people formulating their own opinions about the matters discussed. An assumption is someone’s opinion (Bohm 8). The meaning of the assumptions leads to the formulation of defensive thinking. Therefore, to override the brain’s tendency to jump to defensive thinking a person must suspend their own judgement about the assumption (Yankelovich 45). Disengaging the emotional response leads to searching for the context and meaning behind the assumption. David Bohm, in his book, On Dialogue, describes suspending assumptions as, “You don’t believe them, nor do you disbelieve them; you don’t judge them as good or bad” (20). Suspending a person’s own thoughts prevents individualized judgements from derailing the point of the dialogue taking place. The dialogue conversation can then transform into collective