There are many consequences of secrecy, some include violence, breakups and divorce. The shock can be very unbearable and cause unnecessary heartbreak for anyone who thought they could live happily ever after. For example, my sister had a high school sweetheart who went into the military and was stationed overseas in Japan. This began the cycle of him going to strip clubs and cheating with random women. My sister had to find out through one of his friends and bank statement from their shared account. When men or women do not have the guts to tell their partners that they had an affair it causes a domino effect. It rips families apart and turns happiness into the darkest of
