She died of heart attack as an aesthesia triggered the anaphylactic shock during her gallstone surgery. All of her stay in America; she clings to her ex-status. She desires for the regular trips to india talking of Indian traditions and nationality, Ruma’s mother is very sincere to go through her duties as a wife and mother, and tries to extend her culture, ethics, religion and language to her children. Even in America, she seldom dresses in her bright colour saris, her dime-sized maroon bindi, and her jewels. She would like to teach Bengali, her mother tongue, to her children and even in talking to her daughter, Ruma who not only a follower of her old culture, but also adaptable to exist in a multi-cultural society by accustomed to her native habits and life-style. On having heard Ruma’s decision to marry an American, her mother feels a cultural shock and warned her daughter: “you are ashamed of yourself being Indian that is bottom line.”. Ruma’s mother witnesses a marginal character and it cannot admit her cultural values. But, it was after Ruma had a child, their relations became harmonious. Ruma’s mother, being a grand-mother, transformed herself making her daughter good at ease and she wanted to see her grandchildren
She died of heart attack as an aesthesia triggered the anaphylactic shock during her gallstone surgery. All of her stay in America; she clings to her ex-status. She desires for the regular trips to india talking of Indian traditions and nationality, Ruma’s mother is very sincere to go through her duties as a wife and mother, and tries to extend her culture, ethics, religion and language to her children. Even in America, she seldom dresses in her bright colour saris, her dime-sized maroon bindi, and her jewels. She would like to teach Bengali, her mother tongue, to her children and even in talking to her daughter, Ruma who not only a follower of her old culture, but also adaptable to exist in a multi-cultural society by accustomed to her native habits and life-style. On having heard Ruma’s decision to marry an American, her mother feels a cultural shock and warned her daughter: “you are ashamed of yourself being Indian that is bottom line.”. Ruma’s mother witnesses a marginal character and it cannot admit her cultural values. But, it was after Ruma had a child, their relations became harmonious. Ruma’s mother, being a grand-mother, transformed herself making her daughter good at ease and she wanted to see her grandchildren