The relationship with the team will be affected. Most likely she will not see the wife of her colleague again. On the other hand she will continually see the colleagues that are all participating in such activities. Her relationship would be damage with everyone on her team. The confrontation would cause more damage is Cindy was to tell everything that her colleague participated in.
It is difficult to make a decision as ones morals point of views is put on the spotlight. People often do what they believe is best and do not think of what is ethical. It maybe for various reasons such as feeling guilty of something, believing what’s ethical will cause more damage or doing what one thinks its best. There are five ethical approaches that I considered when analyzing this case. Hanson talks about the Greatest Good,