Sexual Consent In Preschool

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Think back to the good old days of pre-school and kindergarten. Napping, coloring and reading circle were activities that became a part of your daily routine. And then there was recess, the time where you imagination could figuratively and physically run wild. But what if your usual friend did not seem interested in your newly devised plan to “build” the worlds largest skyscraper? Would you pull them along anyway despite their wishes? Or would create a different plan together?

These are the parameters that surround the idea of sexual consent, even during young adulthood. These principles introduced to us more then a decade ago in kindergarten and preschool still hold true today. That if someone does not openly express interest in participating in an activity with you, you should not force them.

According to the Rape & Abuse, Incest National Network (RAIN) consent is
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Take the quote from Melina in our “what if” activity, her partner was inebriated after consenting to have sex with her while sober. Therefore if she had gone through with sleeping with their partner while he was inebriated, he would have been a victim of rape due to his inability to consent during intercourse.

If you or someone you know has been a victim of rape or sexual assault, do not be afraid to speak up and report it as it is a criminal offense. A list of resources will be provided on page 7 that will guide you on what to do next.

Remember, being a victim of sexual assault or rape does not mean you are to blame. You did not give consent to participate in sexual activity, your decision should have been heard.

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