Coercive And Abusive Relationships

An abuser is a person who sexually assaults, makes painful torture by hand or violence, or a person who regularly and habitually abuses other persons or someone in relation, especially life partners in practical. The abuser may be a particular person that takes drugs and alcohol in excessive amounts called intravenous drug abusers. Sometimes people use coercive and abusive patterns to behave with their partners thinking that in this way they can develop a dominating position, strong control and power in their relationship. There are certain categories of abuser behaviour and abuser person, that is, they may abuse their partners for money, emotions and feelings, for sexual and for physical dominance. Sometimes one partner may abuse other by …show more content…
There are endless reasons that why person become abuser without thinking about the age, gender, cultural learning or economic backgrounds and sexual orientation. The person may become abuser if he does not love and respect his or her partner. Sometimes feeling of fear that the other partner may not leave due to any fault or personality issues also result in abuse. Sometime the victim tolerance as she loves the abuser may give more strength to do abusive behaviour again and again in the relationship. There is another reason to push a person towards abusive behaviour if the opposite partner does not understand the persons’ feeling, emotions. There is no acceptance in relationship towards the mistakes and faults. Sometimes broken family kids may learn or develop abusive behaviour in them due to unfair and unjust parent’s dealing, lack of attention, meaningless life, broken dreams and unachievable hopes and goals. The children that have faced some abusive behaviour related to sexuality assault may become a reason to do same abusive dealing toward others. They only think about themselves not about the related persons and leave harmful effects on the relationship. Self-destruction, avoiding responsibilities and self-centeredness are the most important factors due to which a person becomes an abuser …show more content…
It is a bad thing that is highly discouraged in modern societies. Now a day, it is most pervasive thing and shameful act. It is a wrong perception about the abuse that it is related to a culture, demographic boundaries and status, race or wealth. It is not acceptable or allowed anywhere round the world. One misconception that is highlighted by the writer of the book breathing underwater is that in practical life, it is though that a woman is typically a man issue and he had to deal it in whatever way. Like in this story, Nick treated his girlfriend. It should be though that woman is tied in all relations so she has to be treated fairly (Flinn). There is a misconception about the abuser that it is the men who always violate or abuse relationship. Sometimes the women also create abusive behaviour in her relation to dominate the male partner. The myth that the abusive behaviour of one man creates bad impression of all men is totally