Teenage Social Life Essay

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One of the most difficult and complicated parts of a person’s life is their teenage years. Many decisions by teenagers make direct and influential impacts their future, particularly towards their future college, job, and level of success. While going through massive bodily changes, a teenager has to deal with school work, sustaining a social life, and making time for extracurricular activities, all while making some of the most important choices of their lives. With so many different expectations to meet both socially and academically, being a teenager is no walk in the park. Children entering their adolescent and teenage years should know to prioritize academics over sustaining a social life, to make time for extracurricular activities, …show more content…
The most common choices that lead to the ruining of a teen’s future are alcohol and illegal drug usage. Use of alcohol, not on a daily basis, is often a choice made by a teen facing peer pressure. Teens are often desperate to make friends or even just acquaintances, and unfortunately will often go the extent of drinking to make friends. However, if a teenager is caught drinking illegally, whatever value they got socially will backfire in massive and unrecoverable ways. A teen’s chances of achieving whatever goal they held for their future is almost always plummeted to rounding error of 0% if they are caught drinking. Another common choice that leads to the destruction of a teen’s dreams is illegal drug usage. Illegal drug usage by teenagers can stem from peer pressure, but is just as often caused by a teenager’s wish to rebel against his parents. The damage caused by illegal drug usage makes the damage of illegal drinking seem like child’s play. Illegal drug use by teens, if caught, can bring rejection from almost any college, often leads to expulsion from high school, goes on the teen’s permanent record, and leads to rejections from majority of occupations and jobs. Drug usage will also have legal implications that can be just as harmful, if not more so. Although illegal drug use is the most devastating, it is not the only act of rebellion by teenagers towards their parents. Purposefully failing classes in school and taking a careless and work-free approach academically is another common form of rebellion. This can lead to rejection from the colleges teenagers dream of going to, rejection from high-profile and high-paying professions, and injure the social status over a teen. The purposeful failing of classes may not be an act of rebellion

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