Marriage-Farris Stephanie Coontz wrote a bold statement “The notion that marriage is an impediment to commitments to the larger community. This sentence extracted from her essay the “Five Myths About Marriage. In her essay Coontz, does make a plausible case that some divorced families do enjoy a wholesome existence. Although, marriage is more than a liability. Moreover, marriage is the combination of two very different perspectives; one female and one male perspective which empowers and strengthens the union of family through modeling.…
Marsha McMillen Unit 5 Sociology Discussion There is several cultural themes of family and marriage. We have Traditional Societies, Industrial and Postindustrial societies. In the Traditional societies the structure of the marriages the spouses are introduced to all the family, which there is an abundance of obligations. The function of marriage is to fulfill six needs that are important for the survival of society, and they are socialization of the children, reproduction, economic production, recreation, sexual control, and care of the sick and aged.…
This week’s reading, Andrew Cherlin’s reviews the historic changes with marriage, divorce rates, sexual behavior and gender role’s. I can relate to some of the historic patterns and changes of marriage, divorce and women’s role in today’s societies. I was married at a young age and we had three children. At the time, I felt that continuing an education was never an option and so I have chosen to stay home and raise my children while my husband pursued his career in the military. However, after seventeen years of marriage, my husband and I divorced.…
For Better, For Worse Stephanie Coontz wrote in the article “For better, For Worse: Marriage Means Something Different Now”, that marriage has changed recently, the values are not the same as they were in the 1960’s. When marriage was a status symbol only in the 1960’s, there were fewer problems. Because of changes to divorce laws, it is now easier to divorce than ever before, changing family dynamics as well as society. I believe that if a person makes a life long commitment, they should be held to their commitment, as they did in the 1960’s.…
Stating, “As an institution, marriage has lost much of its legal, social, economic, and religious meaning and authority.” The authors believe that marriage no longer has the same prestige that it once had and instead the meaning of marriage itself has been redefined. Popenoe and Whitehead present the article in a very logical way, explaining how ideas about marriage have evolved and using statistics to support their claims. Proposing that “ It is a sign of the times that the overwhelming majority (94%) of never married singles in our survey agreed that ‘when you marry, you want your spouse to be your soul mate, first and foremost.’” They go on to explain that this is a new…
In the article “The Suffocation Model: Why Marriage in America is becoming an All-or-Nothing Institution”, authors Eli J. Finkel, Elaine O. Cheung, Lydia F. Emery, Kathleen L. Carswell, and Grace M. Larson, discuss how the purpose of marriage has dramatically changed from originally being for the basic needs of survival to needing marriage for self-esteem and intimacy. They have concluded that marriage has followed the Suffocate Model, and this model has two possible outcomes one negative and one positive. Positive being if the marriage in present day is satisfying than the marriage will prove to be more fulfilling than a marriage in the 19th century or early 20th century. The negative consequence is that with the higher expectation for marriage…
Marriage which is widely defined as the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship has been an integral part of the world. It has also been channel where individuals come together and legitimately demonstrate and show care and affection towards each other. This has made marriage a form of institution that provides the platform for people to come together for the purpose of love, goals, relationships etc. In his writing on “The Deinstitutionalization of American Marriage” Cherlin explains that marriage is an institution that defines partner’s behavior.…
The strong human connections that individuals are able to create within life are ultimately inexplicable and have become necessary to be able to truly survive. Human interaction and communication are the basis of these connections and are constantly overlooked within society. The intricate patterns and details that determine the behavior of an individual and how they interact can be identified by looking at the symbols that influence their lives, such as words or gestures. Symbolic Interactionism, a micro sociological perspective that was heavily influenced by Erving Goffman, Charles Horton Cooley, and George Herbert Mead, is a concept that analyzes society through the personal meanings that people place upon actions, objects, and daily occasions (Appelrouth & Edles 2008).…
The process of a marriage or divorce will never be easily explained. How do these people make a marriage work, how have they been successful or failed? Marriage has been studied over the years and these two authors give insight into how it has changed. Stephanie Coontz, author of “Origins of Modern Divorce'', writes about how marriage has changed in history. She talks about how marriage and divorce have changed, why people married, and why they divorced.…
Rhetorical Analysis In her essay, “The Disestablishment of Marriage”, Stephanie Coontz guest columnist teacher at The Evergreen State College, illustrates the change of the standards of marriage “demanding different things from marriage then in the past” with the use of studies and data. Coontz shows the data on how the present day marriage has changed from are ancestor’s views of marriage. Coontz discuss how marriage is no longer the center institution that organizes people’s lives.…
The idea of self-preservation has had an immense impact on the contemporary view of marriage in the twenty-first century. In her book “The Making of a divorce culture” Barbra Dafoe Whitehead annotates that the American Revolution and divorce both have some distinct parallels. Although Whitehead herself does not condone the idea of divorce. She further uses this key information as a spring board, in order to explain to the reader why in some instances divorce is necessary. When a marriage becomes oppressive, violent or cold the individual experiencing those agonizing occurrences has the right to dissolve the marriage.…
College is an exciting time for many young adults. It is the first step towards adulthood and for a majority of students it’s the first time they experience independence. “Alcohol consumption in humans is the third leading preventable cause of death in the United States (McGinnis & Foege, 1993). A common abuse pattern called binge drinking contributes to a substantial portion of alcohol-related deaths (Chikritzhs, Jonas, Stockwell, Heale, & Dietze, 2001)”. Though with freedom comes responsibility.…
The closer a husband’s and wife’s earnings, the more likely they are to share housework. Most husbands who get laid off, however, decrease their housework, while husbands who earn less than their wives do the least housework. To explain why laid off husbands with more time on their hands and working husbands who earn less than their wives would do less housework rather than more, symbolic interactionists turn to gender roles. If a husband is laid off and/or makes less than his wife, it undercuts his traditional role as provider and, thus, threatens his…
Rather than seeing family roles as pre-existing and given structures that are simply accepted, this school of thought focuses on the meanings and lived experience associated with those roles and how they are constructed through interaction (McLennan, 2000). When relating symbolic interactionism to the American institution of marriage, the symbols may include a church ceremony with vows of lifetime commitment, wedding bands, a white wedding dress, a cake, flowers and music. Additionally, Ruth Dunn (2010) explains the symbolic interactionist paradigm of the family as placing emphasis on exploring the continually changing meanings of a family and its relationships. Dunn points out that “social resources are brought to the marriage by each partner including education, physical attractiveness, intelligence and family status” and the family’s “shared activities help build emotional bonds”. The sociological theories in regards to traditional families vary, as well as the roles of the family members.…
As A whole, social media is almost unavoidable in today’s society. Different forms of communication through social media can either be constructive or a nuisance. Social media can speed up the way people gain knowledge and make sure easier communication, however, it can also be used in negative ways to spread unnecessary information and cause havoc. The use and impact of social media can be broken down and explained in different sociological perspectives or terms. Conflict theory, functionalist, and symbolic interactions can all be applied and used to address social media and its influence on society.…