Analysis: Superior Vs. Inferior Parenting Skills

Improved Essays
Thesis: Superior versus Inferior Parenting Skills
Being a mother of two girls my greatest wish is for both of them to be successful and happy in their lifetime. I often ask myself what is the best way to ensure that this happens. It is true that the way parents raise their children will decide how well the child grows, in particular the mothers who impact their children the most?
Based on “Hanna Rosin’s” article Mother Inferior she states that some parents choose to only want their children to be happy. This article touches on many facets including how western parents are hell bent on making their children feel like winners regardless of their achievements or under performance. Whereas “Amy Chua” sees it totally different than Hanna Rosin. In "Chinese Mothers are Superior,” Chua, who was born in China, experienced some difficulties while trying to raise her children in America which she shares in her novel “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother”. Amy was raised by strict, Chinese immigrant parents who came to the U.S. as graduate students with very little money (Amy Chua) Amy writes about the struggles of being a mom and the changes she had to face in order to conform to society’s expectations. This is not only a challenge for Amy, but there are many other families that are facing the same challenges as well. However, raising children is undeniably more
…show more content…
Although there are major differences between Chua and Rosin’s parenting beliefs, whether it’s their financial, education, cultural, political or education status and they will never agree on one another’s parenting style. There is one common goal that connects Chua and Rosin and every other mother and that is the maternal instinct that we all share and openly display and the distinct dedication, love, affection and devotion that Rosin and Chua have for their

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Amy Tan Two Kinds Essay

    • 753 Words
    • 4 Pages

    “ A Mother’s controlling habits” A mothers role is to love their child unconditionally and want the best for them. But their constant constructive criticism can turn a loving mother into a nagging one. In the short story "Two Kinds" by Amy Tan, Ni Kans mother is constantly pushing her to strive for the "American Dream. " Just like any mother would like to guide their child which is understandable, but for them to dictate their life is completely wrong. Ni Kans mother should have guided her to the right path instead of telling her how to live her life, Ni Kans mother should not have a say towards her future and here is a few reasons why is because this may lead a child to become rebellious and demonstrating hostile to others, dictating…

    • 753 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Tiger moms, as they are called in America, are typically mothers of Asian descent who hound their children into prioritizing music and academic success rather than athletics and theatrical performance. Amy Chua—Yale Law School professor and author of Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother—exemplifies this in her op-ed excerpt entitled “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior.” Chua argues that because of strict parenting methods, an Eastern parenting style is superior to the more relaxed Western style. She does this through use of many rhetorical techniques, of which some help her argument while others hinder it. By utilizing an organization built upon juxtaposition, Chia presents an I-am-right-you-are-wrong attitude as she relays conflicting personal stories…

    • 885 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    These mothers are all expressing a form of love. In “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid, this is a complicated…

    • 236 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Kieu Tran uses direct and honest diction to convey the reality of the life of many eastern style families with tales of her own life and the story she tells about her friend that gets his parents in trouble. She contrasts the lifestyle of many Asian families in the US compared to their white friends. By extension, the lifestyle she describes could apply to many immigrant families. She describes how it is perfectly normal in Asia to beat your kids and push them to the limits to perform. America, at this point, however, is on the other extreme.…

    • 238 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    1.07 Parenting Skills

    • 574 Words
    • 3 Pages

    1. In my opinion, I don’t believe that babies who leaned sign language as infants have a higher overall IQ. I believe this myth is not true because babies who learned sign language as infants may help them to having a better sense to communicate with other and self-esteem, but doesn’t mean that those babies higher overall IQ. To me, babies who leaned sigh language as infants don’t seem to have a higher overall IQ as people claims.…

    • 574 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Decent Essays

    3.07 Parenting Skills

    • 538 Words
    • 3 Pages

    Lesson 2 Quiz 1. What personal experiences and perceptions of trauma do you feel you bring to your work as a Mental Health Worker? A personal experience with trauma in a nutshell, I was sexuality molested by my father from the ages of 3 to 8. Which is why I started using drugs by the age of 11. My drug career consisted of traveling around the lower 48 states living on the streets and lived the true life of a drug addict.…

    • 538 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Superior Essays

    In both “The Fourth of July” and “The Struggle to Be an All-American Girl,” the narrators are willing to contradict their family in order to be who they want to be, be it Audre Lorde disagreeing with her family’s belief that racism is the norm and deciding to take action to end discrimination, or Elizabeth Wong rebelling against her parents’ desire for her to be educated in the Chinese culture. All three narratives demonstrate the power of the parental figure in a child’s life, and the trust children put in their parents. However, they…

    • 1511 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Archetype Of America

    • 752 Words
    • 4 Pages

    All cultures, decades, countries, and people have different views on what it really means to be an American. Slavery was beyond prominent in the 18th century, so the African Americans were treated poorly. Views have changed since slavery has abolished, but there are other countries like China who believe that Americans are not as smart or helpful as the Chinese think they are. The views of what it means to be an American varies, but the main archetype is a hero. In Langston Hughes poem, “I, Too”, during the time of slavery and segregation, African Americans were considered outcasts, but proved themselves to be heroes.…

    • 752 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Author and Lawyer, Amy Chua in her Informative essay "Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior", compares and contrasts the life of a western family and one with a Chinese mother. Chua's purpose is to show to world that in most "Chinese" households the kids are pushed to the extreme to be the best by their mothers. She adopts a enthusiastic tone in order to convey all the emotions she has attached into proving that Chinese mothers are determined to have successful children in her essay to western culture. Chua achieves this tone by the use of determined diction such as when she made a list of things done by parents and selection of…

    • 113 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    To have a voice is to have a distinct identity and an expressible sense of self. This singularity is influenced by a number of factors, particularly culture. In Amy Tan’s The Joy Luck Club, Chinese immigrant mothers and their American-born daughters struggle to discover this voice amidst the societal norms imposed upon them. M. Marie Booth Foster proposes, “These feelings often are a result of male domination” (1).…

    • 2825 Words
    • 12 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Tiger Moms

    • 154 Words
    • 1 Pages

    Tiger Moms' are what Asian mothers are called when they use methods of motivation based around the idea of interdependence. In the Western culture, they value independence rather than interdependence. For example, after a child fails at something or makes a mistake, the Asian mothers are the ones that are more likely to show their support. Western mothers will leave it to you to choose how you continue and let that mistake effect you. Research shows that Asian-American children gain motivation from their mother’s pressure.…

    • 154 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Amy Tan Two Kinds Analysis

    • 1791 Words
    • 8 Pages

    It is important to examine exactly how the parenting roles of the Chinese differ from those of western cultures. The story of “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan explores what happens when a mother from China brings her family over to America, to give her daughter the opportunity to live the American dream. This story shows a mix of stern Chinese parenting and modern day American culture; Chinese parenting is influenced by history and…

    • 1791 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Mothers contribute a lot to their kids’ lives especially when it comes to their daughters. It does not matter if a mother does too much or too little there is always a big impact on their kids’ life. This is shown in two stories written by two ladies, Tillie Olsen, who wrote “I Stand Here Ironing” and Amy Tan who wrote “Two Kinds.” These two authors showed the relationships between the mothers and their daughters. Even Jing-Mei in “Two Kinds” struggled with her mother not let her be who she truly was, and Emily in “I Stand Here Ironing” struggled with the diseases and all miserable things in her life, their mothers showed them love and care in the different ways.…

    • 966 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    As generations evolve over years, cultural conflicts emerge between pre-existing and new generations, “because first generation Chinese American mothers do not communicate affection … their parenting styles are often perceived as being authoritative or unaffectionate” (Communicating Affection within Chinese American Mother-Daughter Relationships). The daughters in both novels felt disconnect from their mothers because they were surrounded by American parents who tended to be less authoritative. Typically Americans didn’t grow up in a war zone and this is why they were more affectionate. Whereas the Asian mothers in both novels “have experienced two kinds of extreme situations; one kind is famine, war, forced marriage…the other is culture alienation…and conflict between mother and daughter in America”(Xu). The mothers grew up in a war zone in China with Chinese customs.…

    • 1780 Words
    • 8 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In each mother, you can see that they care and show affection towards their child. Each mother did tend to their kids’ needs and fulfilled the basic roles of a parent. Also, none of the parents abused their children or maltreated them in any way. Each mother seems to have a strong bond with her baby even if one mother is more distant than another.…

    • 1016 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays