The first line was written from a short story "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been" by Joyce Carol Oates. This quote from the story explains the two sides of the main character, Connie, how she behaves at home differs from how she behaves elsewhere. While her childish side only appear at home, she transition into an adult elsewhere to strives as mature and attractive suggest that she is unsure of how she see herself and who she want to be. The second line came from " A Good Man Is Hard to Find" by Flannery O'Connor.…
In the short story, Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?, Joyce Carol Oates’ depicts the life of a young, narcissistic girl who lives in her own little unrealistic word of beauty, popularity, and boys. Connie’s sister and mother are the complete opposite of what the young, self-centered girl represents. Connie’s entire life consists of making sure she is always looking young and beautiful for the boys out on the town. One day, Connie’s vain lifestyle bites back when a boy that goes by the name Arnold Friend arrives at her house. Arnold Friend personifies an evil spirit bound to show Connie the consequences of the lifestyle she so dearly loves.…
Connie finally makes the decision to go off with Arnold for a joy ride and no one truly knows what happens to her after he drove away. Individuals assume that Arnold Friend is a serial…
Throughout literature, many authors and historical philosophers have contributed to how the human mind has two sides. The duality of man is an identified disparity between good and evil the distinguishment of human behavior in doing right from wrong. Although human nature has no definite explanation upon the release of emotions, there is always the desire to act against society in terms of violence and the laws. In Joyce Carol Oates,“ Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” the affiliation between moral choice and behavior is commonly shown through the protagonist Connie emphasising on the hallucination and obsession with boys that results in a change in personality camouflaged in one body.…
Several other times throughout the story Connie is shown checking her hair and making sure she looks good. If Connie had followed God’s word and cared more about the type of person that she was instead of how good she looked she wouldn’t have attracted Arnold Friends…
With Fate Comes Choice In “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been”, a short story by Joyce Carol Oates, the combination of the circumstances and the choices that Connie makes all indicate that she is responsible for her own fate. Connie’s family life plays a large role in making her a very independent and self-reliant person. She wants to present herself as a mature attractive individual, and her family structure sets her up with the opportunity to do as she sees fit. In making the choice to present herself to the boys in this manner she has also made the choice to assume all responsibility for the consequences of her actions. When Connie encounters Arnold she attempts to flirt with him and puts on her attractive persona just as she would…
While Connie was naive upon meeting Arnold, overtime her perspective on Arnold alters. She realizes that she no longer needs validation from him. Oates explains Connie’s awareness: “‘Shut up! You’re crazy!’ Connie said.…
Initially, Arnold seduces her with the attention that she would never get from her family and effectively uses it to his cause when he points out that her family doesn’t “know one thing about [her] and never did . . . [and that none of them} would have done this for” her (301). When his attempts to sweet talk Connie into coming out of the house fails, Arnold reveals his true colors and drops any and all pretense of friendliness. He says that “it's all over for [her] here [and asks her to] come on out (300). He uses her fear for her family’s safety and her sheer goodness to lure her out of the house, as he remarks “You don't want your people in any trouble, do you?”…
Connie appears to be a self-confident girl to the outside world, but after she meets Arnold Friend, she realizes how vulnerable and innocent she is. Indeed, her beauty couldn’t protect her from harm and gives her what she…
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been,” written by Joyce Carol Oates is an unsettling and incredibly formidable story of a young woman’s loss of innocence during a time of social change, unrest and turbulence.…
Throughout the stories Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? And A Good Man Is Hard to Find, The theme of fear is present throughout these stories. The ideology of fear are shown in these two stories and they connect to how fear is used to control people. Fear is seen today and was seen in the 1960’s and 1970’s. Both Joyce Carol Oates and Flannery O’Connor emphasized this throughout their stories.…
She is very suspicious of him as soon as he pulls up to the house. Arnold 's appearance is that of a slightly muscular middle-aged man who looks like he’s wearing a wig and walks like he has hooves. Connie is slightly intrigued, yet fearful of him, so she stays behind the screen door and tries to make it obvious that she wants nothing to do with him. She is hoping to discourage him, so that he would leave, but Arnold isn’t about to give up easily. He continues to harass Connie and eventually she realizes that she is dealing with a Psychopath.…
Before she could call for help it was too late. He lured her out of the house and threatens her and her family’s life if she does not listen to him. Connie has no choice but to obey everything he commands of her. In the last scene of the story, Connie is walking outside to Arnold’s car. This shows that she will never return.…
There is a fine line between fantasy and reality. Though as fine as a line can be, an individual can be as easily blind with imagination. People do not want pure unadulterated fantasy, but a fantasy that incorporates themselves and what they believe of what they want. However, sometimes what they believe they want is much more complicated and darker. The same concept is exhibit as the main theme in, Joyce Carol Oates 's “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?”…
For centuries, folklore has defined different cultures around the world. Many of these tales have been adapted into mainstream media for children by companies such as Disney. Unsurprisingly, Disney leaves out a lot of the original stories. The fairy tales from the Brothers Grimm and Hans Christian Andersen are meant to express topics involving the loss of innocence that young ones are not expected to know. Amidst modern literature, Joyce Carol Oates’s inserts similar connotations in her 1966 short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been.”…