He began to see that people need to stop judging each other when they know nothing about them. He suggests that we “open our hearts to each other, no matter how deep our differences”(Palmer 4). By opening up to each other we can overcome the tension that divides us. When we begin this process of learning about each other our struggles become evident, and can lead to understanding. Palmer explains, “When we share the sources of our pain with each other instead of hurling our convictions like rocks at “enemies,” we have a chance to open our hearts and connect across some of our great divided”(Palmer 6). People can find common ground when they share their stories, and once they know about a person’s “darkness” it is much easier to see that person as a human, just like them. Once we develop a level of understanding we can work through our differences respectfully, just as our democracy was intended to function. It is inevitable that people with have differing views, but we can “turn suffering into community, conflict into the energy of creativity, and tension into an opening toward the common good”(Palmer 9). Our society can flourish if we work together to solve the problems that affect all of
He began to see that people need to stop judging each other when they know nothing about them. He suggests that we “open our hearts to each other, no matter how deep our differences”(Palmer 4). By opening up to each other we can overcome the tension that divides us. When we begin this process of learning about each other our struggles become evident, and can lead to understanding. Palmer explains, “When we share the sources of our pain with each other instead of hurling our convictions like rocks at “enemies,” we have a chance to open our hearts and connect across some of our great divided”(Palmer 6). People can find common ground when they share their stories, and once they know about a person’s “darkness” it is much easier to see that person as a human, just like them. Once we develop a level of understanding we can work through our differences respectfully, just as our democracy was intended to function. It is inevitable that people with have differing views, but we can “turn suffering into community, conflict into the energy of creativity, and tension into an opening toward the common good”(Palmer 9). Our society can flourish if we work together to solve the problems that affect all of