From childhood into adulthood, a person is bombarded with societal pressure to personify the roles assigned to their gender– gender meaning how the individual identifies (male, female, transgender, gender fluid, etc.) not their biological sex. Traits or behaviors typical to one gender are deemed socially unacceptable. Aaron H. Devor–previously Holly Devor, before his gender reassignment in 2002– professor of sociology and former Dean of Graduate Studies at the University of Victoria in British Columbia, illustrates this in his essay, “Becoming Members of Society: Learning the Social Meanings of Gender.” In his essay, Devor explains how characteristics such as behavior or physical appearance (apart from one’s reproductive system) define individuals…
“We grow neither better nor worse as we get old, but more like ourselves” ~ May Lamberton Becker. Growing up is ia full of hard, uncomfortable decisions and moments, we all have to grow up and change. “A&P” by John Updike; “Gryphon” by Charles Baxter; and “Doe Season” by David Kaplan are all coming-of-age stories where each main character learns about themselves and life in general and taken together tell us that life is all about the choices we make, and the effects of those choices. In “A&P”, Sammy is a 19-year -old, opinionated young man who decides to take a stand against his manager and defend Queenie. He is motivated by his curiosity her mien invokes in him, and because he feels apathetic about his position.…
Amy Tan's Two Kinds uncovers clashing qualities. The mother-little girl relationship goes through the entire story. Clashes happen attributable to disparate conclusions about distinguishing proof. As a Chinese settler in America, Jing-Mei's mom puts her American dream on the shoulder of her little girl. Be that as it may, as an American conceived youngster, Jing-Mei would not like to experience the desires of her mom.…
Cassandra Clare once wrote,“Lies and secrets... they are like a cancer in the soul. They eat away what is good and leave only destruction behind.” Everyone has a secret, but, it is what a person lets a secret do to them and to others that can be destructive. In Election written by Tom Perrotta, characters in a suburban town live everyday hiding secrets from their peers, elders, and even themselves.…
After analyzing the provided audiotape between Gramma and Sissy, it becomes evident that Gramma faces a communicative dilemma involving confronting Sissy, her granddaughter, about her eating disorder. A communicative dilemma is when two desired identities, within the same person, implicate conflicting discourse practices (Esch 2016). In the data provided, it is apparent that Gramma aspires to be loving and supportive of her granddaughter, but at the same time she must address the issue in a stern and forbidding manner, to give the matter at hand the seriousness it deserves. In order to illustrate this communicative dilemma, Gramma is confronted with, the following class concepts and discourse practices will be defined in how they relate to…
Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl is the autobiographical account about a young woman name Harriet Brent Jacobs. It talks about her life in slavery and her daring escape. Young Harriet, who assumes the name of Linda Brent, was born in Edenton, North Carolina to a “kind” mistress who taught her how to read, write and sew. When Linda’s mistress died, she was willed to the mistress’ young niece. Soon after her father also dies.…
Liz Prince is not the average girl who follows the societal expectations. She, like any other person, is not an exception to the societal expectations for gender roles. Through her graphic memoir, she tells her experiences as a tomboy. Because of Liz’s boyish tendencies, she is not easily accepted in the society. She even has a hard time finding who she is and where she belongs.…
In her May 21, 2007, article, “(Rethinking) Gender” from Newsweek, Debra Rosenberg informs, and subtly persuades that the definition of gender, specifically stereotypical categories should be reevaluated. In the beginning of the article Rosenberg tells the story of the NASCAR driver, J. T. Hayes, who suffered a race car accident then decided to change his name and become Terri O’Connell. She said that she changed her ways that she had always felt like a woman and that this has been an ongoing struggle. From her accident she feared that her life was not at its fullest potential and that is her reasoning for becoming a female.…
Ableism can be defined by Campbell (2008) who argues ableism is connected with the production of ableness which refers to the perfect body by default (p.153). Campbell (2008) also argues that “the creation of a neologism that suggests a falling away from ableness that is disability (p.153). Ableism causes social marginalization and exclusion to those who do not conform to societies ablest norms (Dhamoon, 2009, p.113). The concept of ableism can be shown in the two readings the first one is “Regulating Difference: Accounts of Deaf and Transsexual Difference” from Identity/Difference Politics written by Rita Dhamoon. The second article is written by Judith Butler called “Doing Justice to Someone: Sex Reassignments and Allegories of Transsexuality.…
In her article “Performing Genres: Sarah Edmonds’ Nurse and Spy and the Case of the Cross-Dressed Text”, Jane E. Schultz discusses the interconnection between the form and the content of Sarah Edmonds’s book Soldier, Nurse and Spy (1864). She begins with the general information about the text and proceeds to the phenomenon/issue of cross-dressing as the main distinction/characteristic of the given story. According to Schultz, Edmonds’s book is one of the first stories of cross-dressed women during the American Civil War (73): it was published in 1864, during the War, and was sold in the quantity over 175,000 copies. The idea of cross-dressed women in American literature seems to be yet older; Edmonds book has such fictional antecedents as The…
Furthermore, the sisters even plot to have the boy return to bring them change for their payment. Everything they are doing to prepare for the boys’ visit revolves around how isolated the two women are, and…
The poem “Lost Sister,” by Cathy Song examines the zone and dilemma of a woman being lost between two cultures. The poem demonstrates how the author feels psychologically lost. This poem is about a Chinese woman who is facing the difficult reality of being a Chinese immigrant. In the poem “Lost Sister,” Cathy Song explores the lives of two generations of Chinese women, and how they are linked by culture through the use of theme, tone, and comparison. “Lost Sister,” has major themes that examine one’s identity, a sense of belonging, and rebellion as it relates to freedom.…
Harriet Jacobs was born a slave in Edenton, North Carolina but died a free woman and abolitionist (HJ XXI). She was unaware of her status as a slave until she was about six years old while living with close relations to her mother, father, brother, and grandmother (HJ 5). Throughout Jacobs’ life, the struggle with religion was apparent in her novel, constantly torn between the belief and doubt in a good higher power. Harriet Jacob’s views of religion wavers throughout her lifetime.…
The gender identification of oneself is conceptualized differently by each individual. Gender is merely a system, produced by society, that divides power. Henceforth, the terms "gender" and "sex" cannot be utilize interchangeably because “gender” proposes that human anatomy defines a person and how they live their lives. A vague traditional stereotype in a binary society, is that women are nurturers whilst, men are protectors. Virginia Woolf merges the lines between genders by scrutinizing appearances, analyzing psychological behaviors, and emphasizing its insignificance.…
The survival of the human race does not depend on women nurturing their children and men providing for their families. Despite this, people seem adamant on keeping the old gender stereotypes, but taking a new twist on them for their own benefit. Some evidence for this can be found in the dialogue of A Raisin in the Sun by Lorraine Hansberry. Some characters are adamant in their old fashioned beliefs in the roles of the genders, but others try fervently to break out of the chains binding them from their gender.…