I have lost somebody who didn’t love me, but they have lost somebody who loved them.” When I read Joan Didion’s piece, “On Keeping a Notebook”, I knew that I could use my writing as a device that would enable me to see the world more clearly, to “remember what it was to be me: that is always the point.” My journal became a place of self-discovery; it was no longer just a collection of adolescent thoughts, but a volume of emotional and intellectual curiosity that was deeply personal. Sometimes, I’d write pages about an argument with a friend that left me wounded; other times, I’d question American policy, religion, and social justice issues: November 8th, 2014, “Went out with Lucy last night and her dad said that wearing skirts in the city is like driving without a seatbelt. There is no ‘female privilege’; this is survival of the prettiest.” My interest in When Eric Garner was pronounced dead after being choked by a police officer, I grappled with my faith in the New York Police Department, wondering desperately why some of the very people enlisted to protect civilians were doing exactly the …show more content…
I think that the worst loneliness is to be uncomfortable with yourself; by creating an environment in which my thoughts and beliefs never had to be standardized, I stomped on that discomfort and turned it into something beautiful and creative and authentic and meaningful. When an obscure online magazine published a journal entry I’d written detailing my struggle to maintain a positive body image, my friends wrote me to tell me it moved them, lessening the shame I felt. By junior year, after filling 10+ journals, I found myself thinking, “If people resonate with my writing, it has to be important. It has to mean