The Troubles of War In the hardships of war, you must fight for what you believe is right or things will never change. In the book My Brother Sam is Dead, Tim and his family face many troubles with the ongoing war. The war is brutal and effects not only those fighting it, but those around it. Unfortunately the people must do desperate things in order to cope with their desperate situations.…
A father’s job is to care for his children, to keep them safe from harm. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always work out that way as is made clear in two Jess Walter’s stories, “Please” and “We Live in Water” from a book of the same name We Live in Water. In “Please” the son in the story lives with his mom, Carla, and her druggie boyfriend, Jeff in an environment where drugs come first. Tommy, the absentee father, has little control regarding the safety of his child.…
(AGG) The main point of the book, Under the Persimmon Tree by Suzanne Fisher Staples, is to show the effect that loss can have on an average person, like you and me. (BS-1) When Nusrat had lost her beloved sister, she felt lost, and like she did not belong. (BS-2) Since her sister tragically died, helping children in need has helped Nusrat cope as she has been on a constraint search for the “why” that she felt she so needed to find. (BS-3) Her husband’s death has showed Nusrat her real self and that she must honor her husband and make amends for her mistakes in the past.…
Problem: In the Chapters 1-3 the character, Tim, is trying to decide whether to be loyal to Sam or to be loyal to his father. Sam, Tim’s older brother that he looks up to, in listed in the war to fight for the rebels freedom, so steals a weapon that means a lot to his family called the Brown Bess. Tim’s father uses the Brown Bess to hunt animals and provide for the family. The Brown Bess a very important part of Tim’s families lifestyle.…
The novel Touching Spirit Bear describes a tale of a young teen who is struggling with his demons. Young Cole Matthews, just 15-years-old, is introduced and an irate, distressed teen who uses anger and violence as a way to lash out against his troublesome home life. At home, he experienced physical abuse from his father, with no help from his spineless mother. Despite countless attempts at counseling his rage, he has reached the point where his only two options are to attend a juvenile detention center, or to go upon the “Circle Justice” as advised by his parole officer, Garvey. His choice of actions is not unusual in today’s society for those who suffer from similar home environments.…
The parents had a strong sense of themselves and the associations with their child. Before the baby’s birth, they had a positive view of themselves, as parents and their relationships. Their lives were balanced and secure, but know life is unbalanced and insecure. Terry’s parenting has changed because of the new baby and the stress of taking care of an ill child. According to Helena, Gun, and Bengt (2006), long-lasting illness in the family can be a stressful event or a crisis for family members.…
My parents value education and they know that in other to have a better future, the first step is having an education. My mom would say that “working at McDonalds would not help pay the bills, put food on the table, and do everything that you want to. You have to go to school. You don’t want to live paycheck to paycheck for the rest of your life.” My parents’ values and beliefs help me choose the path that I’m on now.…
Universals Although the human race has numerous unique cultural opinions, all parents have an ideal role and pressure that their society places on them. For most children, their father is a significant impact on their life and character, and can influence them regardless of whether their relationship is negative, positive, or even neutral. Many people have at least one father figure in their lives who expresses affection and warmth whether it is by handing monetary gifts, upholding strict standards, or sacrificing anything for their young ones. However, some children must take a psychological toll due to an abusive relationship with a guardian, or maybe their guardian is absent.…
In this regard, the family was hard-pressed to obtain funds for the service. The failure to obtain funds for psychological service led to Cora Jackson’s serious depression. Robert’s children, Latrice, Demarest and Brianna also get ill. The healthcare service delivery in the Illinois medical center was subject to delay and negligence. Jackie tried her best to take care of her grandmother, Cora, without any financial and emotional support from medics.…
Comparing and Contrasting “A Boy Named Sue” and “Cat’s and the Cradle” Twenty-four million children in America live in a fatherless household. Studies have shown that family structure greatly impacts a child’s life. Children without fathers are more involved in crime, more likely to live in poverty, and struggle with behavioral problems. “A Boy Named Sue” by Johnny Cash, and “Cat’s in the Cradle” by Harry Chapin, are songs that focus on two boys with absent fathers. The songs portray how a missing father similarly affected the main characters, even though they lived very different lives.…
In the novel The Road by Cormac McCarthy, the father’s optimism is retained by his son’s endurance as the boy symbolizes hope. The appalling circumstances of the world results in the characters’ pessimism where they experience feelings of doubt during their journey. However, the father’s reassurance inspires his son to sustain the voyage, accordingly motivating the man’s own persistence. As he confirms his son’s survival day after day, the man’s faith in hope is fortified, inspiring him to continue their expedition. Generally, in the novel The Road by Cormac McCarthy, the boy symbolizes hope as he is perceived as a God, and serves as a barrier between his father and death, motivating the ongoing journey.…
Bravery and maturity are some characteristics ascribed to Tim Meeker from the book My Brother Sam is Dead, by James Lincoln Collier and Christopher Collier. Tim Meeker had to grow up faster than he would have needed to if the war had not appeared into his life. He had always looked up to his brother Sam, though he wasn't a good example for Tim. Tim had many responsibilities to fulfill and he acted maturely and knew how to handle hard situations. Sam goes to war, and their father dies, so Tim had to do his chores and help his mother with others that Sam and their father used to do.…
The Intergenerational Sounds of Silence: Denial, Dysfunction, and Healing in David Small’s Stitches and My Life David Small’s Stitches is an acclaimed graphic memoir that reflects the intergenerational effects of denial, silence, and repression in a young boy’s life. The dysfunction of my own family goes back generations, and is inextricably linked to the ways in which my parents and their parents and their parents’ parents grew up: in a world rife with unchecked anger, manipulation and denial. As time has passed, however, Small and I have both discovered that the exposure of the candid truth, the courage to embrace it, and the choice to make change sets the impetus for healing. A pervasive family culture of silence and suppression based…
Attention Grabber: In our society, we all long for a feeling of acceptance by our peers and we detest the feeling of being left on the outside. Introduce literature used: On a Rainy River by Tim O’Brien Thesis: Acceptance of plays a role in the responsibilities that we put upon ourselves, this is demonstrated through the character of Tim O'Brien, metaphor and tone of the story. Body Body Paragraph 1…
“A Child called it” first published in 1995, is a heart touching story about severe child abuse which happened in California. This book discusses the life of David Pelzer and his story about his abusive life. This novel gives insight into the horror of child abuse and the amazing need for survival. An idea that was portrayed throughout the novel was child entrapment.…