Bell argues that the contradictory cultural changes may raise the internal conflicts of twenty-something women’s desires when she states “They feared losing their identities and independence through being in an intimate relationship. So they felt conflicted about having and letting somebody in on their relational desire” (30). Most people have been in the contradictory situations. They want to be independent, but also want to be taken care of by others. Young women hope to experiment and satisfy their sexual desires, but also want to settle down in the end. Desire is complex, says Bell, and involves a decent amount of ambivalence. Twenty-something women have mix feeling when they want to have their own identities but still satisfy their sex needs. Bell promotes the several cases of women and how they deal with internal conflicts of desire through splitting them into different parts of their lives. However, their choices do not always go to the right direction and they may question their choices after experiencing more sexual activities, such as the case of
Bell argues that the contradictory cultural changes may raise the internal conflicts of twenty-something women’s desires when she states “They feared losing their identities and independence through being in an intimate relationship. So they felt conflicted about having and letting somebody in on their relational desire” (30). Most people have been in the contradictory situations. They want to be independent, but also want to be taken care of by others. Young women hope to experiment and satisfy their sexual desires, but also want to settle down in the end. Desire is complex, says Bell, and involves a decent amount of ambivalence. Twenty-something women have mix feeling when they want to have their own identities but still satisfy their sex needs. Bell promotes the several cases of women and how they deal with internal conflicts of desire through splitting them into different parts of their lives. However, their choices do not always go to the right direction and they may question their choices after experiencing more sexual activities, such as the case of