Subconscious Attractions

You may have experienced being dumped by a man for someone else. Things like that happen, but what if he dumped you for some woman who was less of a catch than you were? Someone too ordinary or very quirky, maybe? You were probably wondering what on earth he was thinking. You were perfect for him!

There's a simple explanation for that. It has nothing to do with what you and your guy have for each other. It is what these women have that keeps them interested.

By this, I mean a deep, subconscious attraction. This keeps relationships together longer than the attributes you have.

How come men often go for women who are bossy or dull rather than those who are attractive and intellectually stimulating? It is all because of that deep attraction that keeps a relationship strong. …show more content…
You could have consistently told him how he should do things, how he should say things or what he should feel around you. You treated him like a puppy that needed to be potty trained. And when he started to stray from you, you started to bombard him with questions about why he's acting strangely over your relationship, or where the 'spark' that you two used to have had gone. And, finally, you got dumped.

Maybe you did the opposite. You played the perfect girlfriend. You supported him in his whims, you catered to his needs, and you spent time with him despite your own hectic schedule. In short, you could've been the perfect wife. But in spite of it all, he started to drift away and left you hanging. And for no plausible reason, he suddenly dumps you.

Here's the glitch: You can't tell them how you want to be LOVED. Like what I said prior to this, that gut feeling attraction is that quality that keeps your relationship going. And you need to work on certain things that make you more attractive to