Strict Dating Rules

Hormones and teens; the need to be in a relationship, a rational course of action, but can easily get out of hand, so the more rational course of action is to control it at the very least. As a teenager, of 14, I believe that parents should set guidelines for their children dating. This isn’t to say that everything must be monitored, nor that the children mustn't have a relationship, but that said relationship must be controlled to avoid any “mishaps.” With rules in place, not only does it let parents rest assured of the well-being of their children, but protects children from potential harm, whether it may be mental, emotional, or physical. I believe that if control is put into a child’s relationship, it does good for everyone affected by …show more content…
Without these rules that I can follow, I am never sure whether or not I am doing something wrong, or if I am even supposed to be dating in the first place! I, for one, would greatly appreciate some sort of system where I can clearly see what is best for me, and when/ where to do specific things to ensure my safety. This lack of guidance creates distrust between both parties, as I must deny everything and my parents keep suspicion. However, with an addition of guidelines, I can happily date, while my parents know and can make sure their boy is safe. In the Jessica Child’s previously mentioned article “Teen Dating Guidelines”, an interviewed mother stated that her daughter and her boyfriend “Come to the door… meet us and talk to us… and tell us what their plans are, where they’re going to do and when they’ll be back.” Samantha also checks in with her parents to inform them of the date when asked, which isn’t much of a bother, and can make way for advice if ings go down south. That sort of system controls the relationship enough to keep peace of mind of the parents, but still allows Sheryl’s daughter to date, enjoy herself and love someone. As you may see, the system benefits both parties, and one that I would care for as a