There is no time limit on grief, somethings you may never stop grieving. It is a part of human nature to feel sorrow when something does not necessarily go our way, especially when we lose a loved one. We do not understand how to grasp onto the fact that they will never come back. I believe that the wives grief was a little overboard, but understandable due to the fact that she had lost her child. She was the main source for a human being for 9 months and she connected with the child in a way that the husband did not get a chance to do. He was not able to feel this life grow and feel its movements and that is why it may was harder for the wife. The theme of the poem is heartbreak and tragedy. The husband believes that the wife is grieving
