Summary Of Hey Ladies Stop Apologizing

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In Professor Jovanovic’s book “Hey Ladies, Stop Apologizing… and Other Career Mistakes Women Make”, she conveys a very important message for women— to be confident, to live outside your comfort zone, and never be sorry. This guidebook acts as an educational tool for women, and it’s main focus is on women’s empowerment. Professor Jovanovic argues that it is imperative for women to understand that in a world where their accomplishments are devalued, under appreciated, and seldom recognized in a way that is similar to their male counterparts, that they need to take control of their lives, and essentially be their own cheerleader.
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Throughout the book, Professor Jovanovic provides strategies that she has implemented in her own personal
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My realization materialized when Professor Jovanovic discussed her daily routine and how much she accomplished in a day, which subsequently made me realize I need to start implementing some of these strategies. My A-Ha moment happened due in part to meeting Professor Jovanovic for the first time. My first impression of her was “wow this women is confident, unapologetic and takes no crap from anyone”. After my initial impression of her bold personality, I was overcome with jealousy. I thought to myself “why can't I be that confident in myself”. Hearing a bit more of her life I saw similarities between us, and I thought if she could be that confident and self motivated so could I. I had forgotten about my initial feelings towards Professor Jovanovic, until I read her daily routine in her book and something in my head clicked. She gets up, works out, prepares food, and cleans her house, all before I’ve even gotten out of bed most days. I realized that I kept telling myself I want to be a successful and confident person. However, I was not putting any of those thoughts into action. I heard a quote once that has really stuck with me— “dreams do not work unless you do”. I’m not entirely sure where or who I heard it from, but after reading how Professor Jovanovic spends her day, I was reminded that I have been making too many excuses in my life. Upon finishing the book, it became evident that it was integral for me to …show more content…
For someone who has always struggled to be assertive and live boldly, I can say with confidence that anyone who is struggling to find their own voice within their lives will surely benefit from this life guide, as did

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