“She stood ready to move, but her legs needed further instruction. What did she come in here for?” She had trouble even remembering that she needed to use the bathroom. You get an insight on what they feel, what it’s like to not really ‘know’ anymore. Things like “I just don’t remember” are repeated multiple times throughout the book. Knowing what it’s like in their mind, trying to just understand a simple words and phrases. Alice has trouble following conversations, it took her a while to put phrases, sentences, even words together sometimes. Being able to have an understanding of how hard it is for someone with this ‘sickness’ to listen then trying to comprehend what those words mean and what they mean together. Learning that kindness and understanding can really touch a heart.
Which is another reason why I also recommend this book. It really touches you in a way you never would have thought by the cover, title, or just even the synopsis on the back. You have a heart out for her, and when she’s gets hurt or upset with someone, you do too in some way. You get upset at her husband for being impatient with her, or choosing his job over her sometimes. When they argue, his response always ends with “Look Ali, I have to get back to the office”, which is a little heart breaking if you ask