Granted, both of my parents are also minority, liberal-minded people, so that may be true. But I do not believe that. I prefer to believe that I have always formed my own, independent thoughts and beliefs about the world. When I witnessed an event taking place, my first thought was always, “What do I think about this?” It was not, “I wonder what my parents would say if they saw that,” or “My friends would have thought that was cool.” I chose to look at everything with an open, unbiased mind. But also, I think there was more to it than simply making my own decisions. I did not and do not want to be like the masses. I did not want to fit in the cliché. With constant reminders of how similarly everyone around me thought, I knew I wanted to be different. Of course it was not easy at first to let others know that I was different from them. The fear of retaliation and loss of respect was enough to deter the vocalization of my ideas when I was younger. However, as I matured, I found pride in my belief system and became more vocal about it. It did not matter what the other people said or thought. If I spent my life worrying about that, I would never have found out who I truly was. On top of that, I discovered that being different was not such a bad thing. Being different was actually pretty
Granted, both of my parents are also minority, liberal-minded people, so that may be true. But I do not believe that. I prefer to believe that I have always formed my own, independent thoughts and beliefs about the world. When I witnessed an event taking place, my first thought was always, “What do I think about this?” It was not, “I wonder what my parents would say if they saw that,” or “My friends would have thought that was cool.” I chose to look at everything with an open, unbiased mind. But also, I think there was more to it than simply making my own decisions. I did not and do not want to be like the masses. I did not want to fit in the cliché. With constant reminders of how similarly everyone around me thought, I knew I wanted to be different. Of course it was not easy at first to let others know that I was different from them. The fear of retaliation and loss of respect was enough to deter the vocalization of my ideas when I was younger. However, as I matured, I found pride in my belief system and became more vocal about it. It did not matter what the other people said or thought. If I spent my life worrying about that, I would never have found out who I truly was. On top of that, I discovered that being different was not such a bad thing. Being different was actually pretty