Staying Abusive Relationships

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The piece of information that grabbed my attention the most was the section about “why don’t some women leave abusive relationships?” The reason why that question stuck out to me was because I thought it would be just simple enough to walk out of the abusive relationship. Now, that I listened to the narrated PowerPoint, I soon realized that I was incorrect. There are several aspects to why the victim cannot leave the abusive relationship, such as the victim may dependent on the perpetrator or the victim may be scared to leave the relationship because the perpetrator may kill that person. I thought that it would be easy to leave the relationship not considering all of the physiological aspects of the manner. One of the aspects that I really

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