Introduction and Identification of Eriksonian Stage
The Stages of psychosocial development by Erikson, made me to realize that I have gone through some of the different stages in an interesting and challenging ways. Identity versus role diffusion was a stage that one need to be aware of some cultural expectation and to develop a sense of self, this stage contributed greatly in the person I am today. Because I was able to pass through this stage with an understanding and acceptances of my unique personality.
Hutchison (2015) noted that “Each stage requires the mastery of developmental task”, which I certainly agree on. There is always an expected responsibility at every stage either by family members or the society, and this expectations makes …show more content…
For me I was having more of this boyish attitude and most of my close friend where boys, so I contested with them in playing all the games or sport event that was strictly for the men alone, and even performed their duties more better this was the attribute I had. At this stage I was confuse in my identity, because I so much wanted to be a man, I loved there way of doing things, pattern of approach and most times I copied their lifestyle in the kind of dress I put on and the way I walk, because this was the gender I …show more content…
Sometimes, I ponder on this issue and I feel that spirituality in a way prevented me in living that free life of catching fun as my mate would have done. There is always a strong senses of being conscious on the kind of friends I keep and events I attend, like late night parties was seen as sinful and wrong as a believer, which sometimes makes me wonder if I really did enjoy my adolescence as I would have really want.
Conclusion
With all this different stages am able to realize the impact they have made in contributing to my personality. I am glad to have a family who assisted me during the stage of trying to figure out my identity, were there was no rejection from family members, but they saw it as a stage I will grow out from, by giving me the freedom to dress in my boyish style.
The four identity development contributed in helping me in the resolution of crisis experience in my adolescence stage. I was able to achieve identity diffusion (no exploration), identity foreclosure (commitment made in keeping to my spiritual believe and participation), Identity moratorium (conflict with my identity and no commitment on the cultural expectation of women) and identity achievement (being able to appreciate my
The Stages of psychosocial development by Erikson, made me to realize that I have gone through some of the different stages in an interesting and challenging ways. Identity versus role diffusion was a stage that one need to be aware of some cultural expectation and to develop a sense of self, this stage contributed greatly in the person I am today. Because I was able to pass through this stage with an understanding and acceptances of my unique personality.
Hutchison (2015) noted that “Each stage requires the mastery of developmental task”, which I certainly agree on. There is always an expected responsibility at every stage either by family members or the society, and this expectations makes …show more content…
For me I was having more of this boyish attitude and most of my close friend where boys, so I contested with them in playing all the games or sport event that was strictly for the men alone, and even performed their duties more better this was the attribute I had. At this stage I was confuse in my identity, because I so much wanted to be a man, I loved there way of doing things, pattern of approach and most times I copied their lifestyle in the kind of dress I put on and the way I walk, because this was the gender I …show more content…
Sometimes, I ponder on this issue and I feel that spirituality in a way prevented me in living that free life of catching fun as my mate would have done. There is always a strong senses of being conscious on the kind of friends I keep and events I attend, like late night parties was seen as sinful and wrong as a believer, which sometimes makes me wonder if I really did enjoy my adolescence as I would have really want.
Conclusion
With all this different stages am able to realize the impact they have made in contributing to my personality. I am glad to have a family who assisted me during the stage of trying to figure out my identity, were there was no rejection from family members, but they saw it as a stage I will grow out from, by giving me the freedom to dress in my boyish style.
The four identity development contributed in helping me in the resolution of crisis experience in my adolescence stage. I was able to achieve identity diffusion (no exploration), identity foreclosure (commitment made in keeping to my spiritual believe and participation), Identity moratorium (conflict with my identity and no commitment on the cultural expectation of women) and identity achievement (being able to appreciate my