Society's Misconceptions On Sex And Aging

As we age, it does not mean that we lose interest in sex, but as we grow older, our bodies change and we adapt our lifestyles and sexual practices to accommodate those changes. Sex and intimacy is an important part of a healthy relationship at any age. As Dr. Daniel Sewell (2014) pointed out in his video on Sex and Aging there are numerous misconceptions in regards to older adults either not enjoying sex or benefitting from intimacy. These misconceptions about older adult’s sexual activities may come from our society’s stereotype of elderly adult sexuality. Young people may view elderly adults as individuals who no longer have a desire for sex or being physically unable to have sex. Interestingly, one of the topics Dr. Sewell discussed in his lecture is dealing with the medical …show more content…
Sewell offered guidelines for physicians dealing with older clients. Sewell cautioned practitioners not to make assumptions about an older adult’s sexuality. When discussing sex with a patient, one should start slowly and develop a rapport with the patient while anticipating the topic of sex may make the patient feel uncomfortable. In addition, it is important for providers to initiate discussions concerning sex with their patients as the patient themselves, may feel uncomfortable in openly discussing such topics. Physicians should explain to patients that having a healthy sex life is associated with good health. Therefore, the discussion of sex relates not only to an individual’s sexual activity, but one’s overall health (Sewell, 2014). When discussing sex with older patients, privacy is essential, allowing ample time for patients to address their concerns about various topics such as sexual dysfunction and the possible causes. For some older adults, there may be a fear of intimacy due to a recent serious health issue. Therefore, it is crucial for the physician to actively listen and offer supportive