William Deresiewicz, an American author, essayist, asserts, “ Facebook seduces us, however, into exactly that illusion, inviting us to believe that by assembling a list, we have conjured a group.” (373). Deresiewicz states that our friends are now our computer screens. The author expresses that we might have numerous friends, but they are not our real friends. Real friends actually spend time together and have face-to-face interaction; however, the gaps between friends are increasing. In-person meetings are quickly reducing. The author further observes that social media is rapidly changing the way people used to have a friendship. In addition, the author contends that it will not be appropriate to call people on social media friends when People do not spend time with each other personally. This type of friendship seems to be the future of friendship. In retrospect, people were accustomed to meeting each other to share their feelings and to discuss their personal matters with a particular person, yet now people just broadcast everything to all of our friends with no regard for their various interests and differing levels of intimacy we may share with them. The author points out that we are gradually trending away from the ways of having friendships that our ancestors have passed down from one generation to another. Facebook is demolishing friendship and is isolating us, but also tricks in to thinking that we are connected. In addition, Deresiewicz, stresses, “ We have given their hearts to machines, and now we are turning into machines.” (375). Machines are dictating to us, and we are letting them dictate to them. The actual connection amongst humans is lost. We are very much counting on machines. we do not think of anything beyond machines. We feel unpleasant unless we have access to machines. It has become a part of our everyday lives that we cannot disregard. We tend to spend most of our time with
William Deresiewicz, an American author, essayist, asserts, “ Facebook seduces us, however, into exactly that illusion, inviting us to believe that by assembling a list, we have conjured a group.” (373). Deresiewicz states that our friends are now our computer screens. The author expresses that we might have numerous friends, but they are not our real friends. Real friends actually spend time together and have face-to-face interaction; however, the gaps between friends are increasing. In-person meetings are quickly reducing. The author further observes that social media is rapidly changing the way people used to have a friendship. In addition, the author contends that it will not be appropriate to call people on social media friends when People do not spend time with each other personally. This type of friendship seems to be the future of friendship. In retrospect, people were accustomed to meeting each other to share their feelings and to discuss their personal matters with a particular person, yet now people just broadcast everything to all of our friends with no regard for their various interests and differing levels of intimacy we may share with them. The author points out that we are gradually trending away from the ways of having friendships that our ancestors have passed down from one generation to another. Facebook is demolishing friendship and is isolating us, but also tricks in to thinking that we are connected. In addition, Deresiewicz, stresses, “ We have given their hearts to machines, and now we are turning into machines.” (375). Machines are dictating to us, and we are letting them dictate to them. The actual connection amongst humans is lost. We are very much counting on machines. we do not think of anything beyond machines. We feel unpleasant unless we have access to machines. It has become a part of our everyday lives that we cannot disregard. We tend to spend most of our time with