Quick tips on social intercourse
These are just a few things it is good to know if you are trying to win over an employer or are trying to win over his or her social group so that you can enter.
Being like somebody doesn’t make them respect you
Sometimes it makes them like you, but there is no guarantee it will make them respect you. A good example comes from across the pond in the United Kingdom. They had an election where a third-party group called UKIP were trying to win more seats. The UKIP leader was trying to appeal to working class people, so was photographed downing a pint of lager.
Working class people thought he was a nice man, but didn’t want him taking power. Working class people may not complain if he goes out drinking with …show more content…
It is full of men and women in very neat and expensive suits. They ARE allowed to dress however they please, but they do not, they dress in suits and that is the point. People in suits in that job are more likely to be promoted and are more likely to keep their top-level jobs.
Another example is about an unnamed famous person’s wife (unnamed to avoid legal issues). This famous man had many people email his wife from his office. Men and women were allowed to email his wife, who was also a C-list celebrity. A very handsome man from the office sent her an email from time to time. The celebrity admitted in private that he fired the handsome man because his wife enjoyed the emails too much. Just because it is allowed or acceptable, you still shouldn’t do it.
Time to do your research
You have to change if you want your dream job, and that is going to mean changing how you act, what you do, whom you see socially, and what you do with your free, social and family time. You need to change many aspects about yourself or improve many aspects about yourself if you want to leverage your social behavior in order to get your dream job. You have to change and improve because people should take you as you are…but they …show more content…
A man trying to attract a woman by calling her beautiful every other day seems to simply scare her away. Call her ugly every other day and the same happens, but what about calling yourself beautiful? It seems counter-intuitive, but most men that are successful with women have a very high self esteem. Have you ever asked yourself why?
People that speak louder are listened to less
This is a great example of counter intuition. People that are loud tend to get higher positions in jobs, but being loud doesn’t make people respect you. Many times the person with the loudest voice is listened to the least. If people in a group are not paying attention, speak a little quieter.
people who are ignored often speak faster
When a young person is often ignored, he or she will tend to speak faster in order to get all of his or her words out before he or she is ignored. Speak slower and people will actually pay more attention. Speak faster and most times they won’t bother listening.
People that are mean are often given more
These are just a few things it is good to know if you are trying to win over an employer or are trying to win over his or her social group so that you can enter.
Being like somebody doesn’t make them respect you
Sometimes it makes them like you, but there is no guarantee it will make them respect you. A good example comes from across the pond in the United Kingdom. They had an election where a third-party group called UKIP were trying to win more seats. The UKIP leader was trying to appeal to working class people, so was photographed downing a pint of lager.
Working class people thought he was a nice man, but didn’t want him taking power. Working class people may not complain if he goes out drinking with …show more content…
It is full of men and women in very neat and expensive suits. They ARE allowed to dress however they please, but they do not, they dress in suits and that is the point. People in suits in that job are more likely to be promoted and are more likely to keep their top-level jobs.
Another example is about an unnamed famous person’s wife (unnamed to avoid legal issues). This famous man had many people email his wife from his office. Men and women were allowed to email his wife, who was also a C-list celebrity. A very handsome man from the office sent her an email from time to time. The celebrity admitted in private that he fired the handsome man because his wife enjoyed the emails too much. Just because it is allowed or acceptable, you still shouldn’t do it.
Time to do your research
You have to change if you want your dream job, and that is going to mean changing how you act, what you do, whom you see socially, and what you do with your free, social and family time. You need to change many aspects about yourself or improve many aspects about yourself if you want to leverage your social behavior in order to get your dream job. You have to change and improve because people should take you as you are…but they …show more content…
A man trying to attract a woman by calling her beautiful every other day seems to simply scare her away. Call her ugly every other day and the same happens, but what about calling yourself beautiful? It seems counter-intuitive, but most men that are successful with women have a very high self esteem. Have you ever asked yourself why?
People that speak louder are listened to less
This is a great example of counter intuition. People that are loud tend to get higher positions in jobs, but being loud doesn’t make people respect you. Many times the person with the loudest voice is listened to the least. If people in a group are not paying attention, speak a little quieter.
people who are ignored often speak faster
When a young person is often ignored, he or she will tend to speak faster in order to get all of his or her words out before he or she is ignored. Speak slower and people will actually pay more attention. Speak faster and most times they won’t bother listening.
People that are mean are often given more