Social Anxiety Self Modification

Improved Essays
Self-modification: Social Anxiety Intervention
Communication is a huge part of our daily lives. Finishing high school, I decided to move away from home to start college. I wanted to experience another city and meet new people, only to realize that meeting new people was not my strongest suit. I've always identified myself as an introvert so for the longest I would use that as accuse to explain why I was a loner. After researching a few things, I learned that I was suffering from social anxiety. The main problem I was having was difficulty communicating with others. Suffering from social anxiety I was afraid to go places alone, my self-confidence was extremely low and I was always known as the "quiet girl". On top of all that, I would come off as being rude because I was fearful of holding a conversation with someone new so I'd just sit and stare if my friends were having a conversation with someone new. Therefore, it was only right to do my self-modification intervention on social Anxiety focusing more on communicating with new people.
Designing my self-modification intervention, I decided to start with the end in mind. Many
…show more content…
I have dealt with social anxiety all my life and never in a million years did I think that just getting out and actually facing my fears, would help me conquer them. Ehmke stated that “practicing the things that make you nervous, is actually expanding your ability to handle them”. For the most part this intervention was very helpful, but I wish I would have incorporated something to calm my nerves like yoga every morning. My self-confidence is higher because along the way I discovered that I had to turn my negative self-thoughts into positive self-thoughts. My end goal was for me to be able to courageously communicate affectively, being competent and clear with anyone outside of my family and close friends, and for the most part I think I accomplished

Related Documents

  • Great Essays

    Escape From Babel Summary

    • 1276 Words
    • 6 Pages

    The effectiveness of psychotherapy. In A.E. Bergin & S.L. Garfield (Eds.), Handbook of psychotherapy and behavior change (4th ed.). New York:…

    • 1276 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Growing up, I was never comfortable with being myself at school due to the way that I may be perceived by my peers. When I was able to be myself, I managed to form a few close friendships with people who accepted me for who I am. These friends put me at ease by not judging me for the eccentricities that I thought I had. They also helped encourage me to do some of the things that I was scared to do or needed a push of motivation in order to do. My friends essentially helped me come out of my cocoon of shyness and blossom into the social butterfly that I will be one day.…

    • 1444 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Who is Jane Monroe? This is the same question that I hear every first day of school when my teachers would ask to describe myself which they can easily recall and which they can tell that I have spoken the truth. I’m a girl coming from the City of San Francisco whom my parents are named Rosely and Paul Monroe. I live together with my brother who is 11 months younger. I was born on December 9 ,1998 and I stated my schooling at the age of 5 in which I just took Prep before going to Grade 1.…

    • 184 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Monkey Mind Summary

    • 1017 Words
    • 4 Pages

    These individuals had extensive experience in treating anxiety and other cognitive conditions, but all five of Daniel’s first therapists went about treating his anxiety in a similar way. They all asked him to talk about his anxiety. Daniel summed up his early experiences with therapists as effective as “taking aspirin for leprosy” (Smith, 2013, p. e1055). In each of these cases Daniel attempted to reach out to his therapist to connect with them, but only found vague and non-disclosure type communicative feedback. Daniel found talking about his anxiety helped, but only temporarily and the benefits from talking about his anxiety could come from his friends and family with similar results compared to his general…

    • 1017 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Before attending Wilmington Early College High School (WECHS), I was not satisfied with my personality, nor was I happy with the way I was perceived by other people. Most would think that I should have been confident because in middle school I was in the AIG program. However, I never truly felt satisfied with myself. I always got good grades, but I never felt like I earned good grades. Although I was making straight As and Bs, it was always relatively easy to earn those marks in middle school.…

    • 629 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    When I was younger, I struggled to support any friendships for an extended period of time. Before I moved to GCMS School district, I had previously attended three separate schools for the same few reasons. My parents could not afford to live where we did, one or both lost their job, or the environment was not suitable for our family. Moving so often made it difficult to keep in contact with old friends, and even more difficult to make new ones. As I was shy and introverted, it was an intimidating and terrifying situation.…

    • 525 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Communication Issues “Successful conversations require a give and take between both people”(Robison 11). In the novel, Look Me In the Eye by John Elder Robison, the main character, John Elder expresses the difficulty of interpreting the meaning of what it is like conversing with people. Throughout the novel John talks about what struggles he faced when talking to people and making new friends. John always knew he had issues socializing and connecting with other people, and I feel I also have issues too sometimes. I feel as though I cannot start a good conversation with people, unless I know them very well, without being awkward.…

    • 453 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Cbt Social Anxiety

    • 272 Words
    • 2 Pages

    Social anxiety has different ways of being treated. The first and most common method is psychotherapy. Psychological therapy teaches a person to recognize negative thoughts and gain skills of how to gain confidence in social situations. Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) is the most common type of therapy for social anxiety. In this therapy someone gradually works up to situations that they fear most.…

    • 272 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Anxiety: Meditation

    • 252 Words
    • 2 Pages

    Alternative Treatments for Anxiety: Meditation One possible treatment for anxiety that I found in my local area is meditation. From an article written by SFGate journalist Deepak Chopra, “meditation helps with [anxiety] by making the overactive mind quiet [by] identifying with the silence that exists between every mental action.” Other studies state that meditation is also beneficial because of the improvement in negative personality traits and stress. From personal experiences, I can honestly say that meditating is difficult at first; it was uncomfortable for me to sit for a long period of time and concentrate on one thought on my mind rather than being distracted by the noises around me. But practicing meditation helped me with stress and…

    • 252 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I had just moved from Carmel Valley, California, to Atlanta, Georgia, and had zero friends. Whereas most new students would have easily integrated into their class after two weeks, I had still barely spoken to anyone after my entire freshman year, and was labeled as "that shy, boring Asian kid. " My occasional attempts to socialize with others inevitably failed, and after finishing the first quarter of my high school experience without a single friend, I was sure I would never overcome my social anxiety or become anything more than "that boring Asian kid." Being lonely sucked — I had nobody to hang out with, or around whom I felt I fit in. But most of all, it sucked because it made me feel like there was something wrong with who I was because…

    • 588 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    During my life so far, I’ve experienced countless challenges from tough classes, to changing friend groups, to figuring out who I want to become. However, none compare to the arduous struggle to jump out of my comfort zone and conquer my elementary anxiety on which I determined my place among my peers and began the definition of who I was. Starting elementary school, I was cripplingly anxious, not simply the occasional bout of nervousness most people get, but I was truly terrified of what others thought of me and incessantly put an incredible amount of stress on myself for only being in first grade. I couldn’t seem to grasp the concept that it was okay if I messed up, and that perfectionist stress shadowed me for eight more exasperating years.…

    • 577 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Phi 210 Week 1 Assignment

    • 491 Words
    • 2 Pages

    1. Have you ever worked with anyone like Jenny (in the opening case of the chapter), either in school or at a job? Discuss your experiences and how you handled working with this person. They say there is always that one person who acts a certain way if you don’t know that person, you are that person.…

    • 491 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Anxiety Reflection

    • 752 Words
    • 4 Pages

    I really enjoyed this week’s group, I felt like I really connected and bonded to my group members. Speaking about my anxiety is something that I really don’t enjoy doing. Only a handful of people know I have generalized anxiety and social anxiety and those people are either my family are super close friends. I find it really weird that there are other people out there that know how much my anxiety is such a difficult aspect of my family.…

    • 752 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Gardening was a ‘forced’ hobby for a good portion of my childhood. Since elementary school, I worked with my dad in our back yard; I would dig holes, carry bags of manure, and plant flowers and trees. I complained that it would be easier to go to the store and buy a bag of blackberries instead of toiling in the sun for hours to achieve the same thing. I never imagined that I’d end up gardening for fun. Every year, my brother and I would collect the fruits of our labor; every year, I’d appreciate my efforts more and more.…

    • 875 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    As a child, I was always withdrawn, almost as if I was in my own world entirely. I tried my hardest to become extroverted, but overtime problems arose with my speech and social anxiety. No one knew at the time, but this part of my personality impacted me a lot as I grew older. I developed a low self-esteem and became very self-conscious of myself.…

    • 705 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays