Through these three works, marriage 's aspects are revealed: the duties of the wife, the motivation behind marriages, and the power a man has in a marriage. “Marriage a la Mode” and…
Centuries ago, the marriage of two people was considered a legal agreement rather than an act of love. To marry for love was considered a dishonor toward the family, displaying affection in the public was an unwritten law that would result in shame. However, as centuries passed, times changed. It is now acceptable to marry for love, but the question is, will the couple’s love be able to withstand the hardships of life? The change within marriage can be seen in the article “The Radical Idea of Marrying for Love” by Stephanie Coontz, where she talks about the history of marriage and how different cultures interpret marriage, and the article “Will Your Marriage Last?” by Aviva Patz, is about his opinion on marrying for love, and how it is absurd…
Dear Frustrated in Fresno, It is very normal that your friend Matt is assigning his feelings to another person. What Matt is doing can be explained by Sigmund Freud’s Projection theory. Freud said that psychological projection is when one places his/her own desires, motivations and undesirable feelings or thoughts onto someone instead of admitting to or dealing with their own unwanted feelings. This sounds exactly like what your friend Matt is doing! Projection is a defense mechanism.…
The question that will be addressed in regards to the book the Bastard Out of Carolina is: “Think of the overall relationship between husbands and wives in the text. What does that suggest about this relationship in general? (Slip of Paper)” Marriage is founded on the need of love, both husband and wife need to give and be given love to form a healthy marital relationship. Husband and wife relationships in the novel suggest that these relationships are founded in some sense of love, are an institution for generating families and are established with an aspiration for longevity.…
Sigmund Freud was born in Frieberg, Moravia in 1856 where he lived until the age of four. In 1859 Freud and his family moved to Vienna, Austria because of financial problems after his father had failed at making a small business. While in Vienna, Freud had many interests, but because of his Jewish heritage, he couldn't participate in many activities. However, he did participate in high school, where because he was very intelligent, he graduated Summa cum laude in 1873. After he graduated, he studied medicine at Vienna University.…
The Power of Myth Ch. 7 Precis Chapter seven of The Power of Myth analyzes the meanings of true love and marriage. Joseph Campbell begins by tracing the origin of love; he explains that the modern love or the “person to person relationship” comes from the trabadours of the twelfth century. According to Campbell, there are three types of love: Eros, Agape, and Amor—the meeting of the eyes.…
Annotated Bibliography: Freud Hebbrecht, M. (2013). The dream as a picture of the psychoanalytic process. Romanian Journal of Psychoanalysis, 6(2), 123–142. Retrieved from https://lopes.idm.oclc.org/login?url=http://search.ebscohost.com.lopes.idm.oclc.org/login.aspx?direct=true&db=a9h&AN=93354202&site=ehost-live&scope=site This article references the Interpretation of Dreams by Freud in reference to the pictures of dream life and the psychology behind dreams.…
Aleksandra Tyzkiewicz Social Psychology 9.08.2015 INTRODUCTION Many people have been strongly attracted to someone, maybe even in love. The main problem is that these two are separated by a very thin line, as a matter of fact many people confuse attraction with love. These people believe that the feelings they have for the other person are so strong that they passed the attraction phase and walked into what is so called “love”. These feelings usually lead to relationships and this is what psychologists have been trying to explain; they say that a relationship is characterized by “love, care, commitment and intimacy” and only then it can be classified as consummate love, which means that all of these characteristics are present. This paper…
Freud’s relational theory deals heavily with the degradation of love. He writes that a man, to have sexual relations with a woman, must degrade her to a lower status to reconcile his desire for her and his respect for women as created from a view of a mother and sister. To both respect and honor a woman and be sexually attracted to a woman would easily lead to an Oedipal Complex. In avoidance of that possibility, the man keeps respect for his mother and sister, and separated that respect and love by degrading the woman he wishes to have sexual relations with. This dissociates sex from respect.…
“The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship”: An Evidentiary Analysis In 2013, renowned couples psychotherapist Esther Perel presented her talk at a TED Conference in New York titled “The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship.” Perel has authored two books on relationships and sexuality: Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, published in 2006, and The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, published in 2017. The primary focus of her talk was to explore the largest paradox she has uncovered in her observations of erotic couples: the coexistence of love and desire. Perel claims that a rise in individualistic ideals in modern society as well as the glorification of romanticism has resulted in a “crisis of desire,”…
Sigmund Freud’s intra-psychic theory on trauma was developed, from inspiration on his clinical case studies in the late nineteenth century. Freud took on the direction that the repression process is a defence against emotional trauma. The term repression was used to describe painful and emotional events, that are able to be blocked out from an individual’s conscious awareness. This is so that the painful effects of the event would not be experienced and intentionally forgotten (Cohen, 1985). The repression process is an automatic psychological defence.…
In the film, “The Blind Side,” the main character Michael Oher can be considered an exception to all learning and stage theorists. In the beginning of the movie, most of his basic needs are met. He has a place to stay, food to eat, and means of transportation. Unfortunately, when his friend can no longer provide for him he loses everything. Although he is with his friend, he does not have any family members to lean on for support.…
The term psychopath was established in the 1800’s to signify a personality disorder which is characterised by anti-social behaviour, lack of empathy, care and bold behaviour. Throughout history the world has witnessed a countless amount of horrifying psychopaths, but the infamous Edward Theodore Gein was a perplexing psychopath who was known for his unorthodox crimes. His real-life cases has influenced media and the creation of several fictional characters like Leather Face from The Texas Chainsaw Massacre and Norman Bates from Psycho. Edward Theodore Gein better known as “Ed Gein” was an American murderer, psychopath and body snatcher famous for his sick crimes of carving out people’s faces, collection of human skulls and remains, including…
In a world in which there are ever increasing rates of divorce, one must wonder: is marriage worth the heartache or is it simply an institution of the past, ready to be chucked out like an outdated phone book? In the article "Marriage Trap", author Meghan O’Rourke argues for the primordial relationship of mankind while responding passionately to Laura Kipnis with great vigor and success. Marriage has been around since the beginning of time. Kipnis, however, wishes to argue the need for marriage in modern society. In her article, "Against Love", Kipnis blames failing marriages on marriage itself, rather than the flaws of man.…
The authors of the article “Forsaking All Others: The Norm of Monogamy,” center their discussion around the norms of monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. In this case, these norms do not refer to socially recognized social norms, but rather enforced standards. Throughout the article, the authors provide evidence to support their main overarching belief that by accepting monogamy as a norm, disvalue can in turn be the result. To do this this, they begin by defining what monogamy is and what non-monogamy is not, in addition to distinguishing the meaning of erotic relationships and activity, and voluntariness. Practical rationales for monogamy are also examined and some defenses are brought up against them.…