Should Birth Parents Be Allowed To See Their Children

As a child could you imagine what it would be like not to know your parents, or to know them but not be allowed to see them? There are many people today that are in an adoptive or foster situation, many who wonder who they are and who their parents are, sometimes this can cause problems. Other problems apply to both the child and the birth parents. Many times parents will put their kids up for adoption as a result of a current situation, financial or other. Parents of these children should be allowed to see their children, but many times birth parents are denied that, a right that should be theirs. Ada White tells us that,
Some birth parents feel they have no choice at the time due to their lack of financial or emotional support, and that no birth parent wishes to remain unknown to his or her child. It should be the birth parents right to receive support for the emotional hurdles they experience after placing …show more content…
Children can be disappointed if their birth family doesn’t hit what they imagined. Children becoming unruly and fighting between the families is an easy thing to be solved. Therapy is a very viable option for the families, otherwise just communicating with each other is a very important way to keep wires from getting crossed. People are going to argue their point and, there are disadvantages but almost all of the disadvantages can be solved. Kids are going to get confused and have the feeling of rejection at one point in their life, why are people so focused on making the birth parent out to be such a criminal, if they weren’t really parents in the first place why can’t it just be viewed by others as other people ignoring or rejecting you. People make birth parents out to be the villain in the situation. Again many of these problems can be solved with therapy or just thorough communication between all