Reflective Essay: The Short Term Consequences

The short-term consequences were unheard because at the time all I saw was blood and anger, however I felt like my back was against the wall and I had to show my rage somehow and by going up to that woman in the parking lot I needed to step back and assess what I really would have done if it wasn’t for the tranquility from my friend and the police officers hotline. Overall there was a small window for my to react in and I had nothing besides revenge on my mind however I was proud that I didn’t do something stupid such as slashing their tires or keying the truck because that would have put me in a bad spot in the long term. Executive planning is always something that we take for granted and we don’t realize what a gift it is to have control …show more content…
Calling multiple other friends they have in common asking them to confirm if he is always like that which they did was more hurtful and eye-opening because I didn’t want to believe it for the moment but everyone she called seemed to give another story of how he just runs his mouth to anyone and everyone trying to be funny. It was not funny to me, instead, it infuriated me provoking me to do actions that I would regret later but I didn’t care I wanted to give my piece of my mind to this low life who thought they were better than people, belittling other for their own satisfaction. I was disgusted and honestly I will never be satisfied until I can physically do something that would leave a mark on them for as long they live. Now I don’t want to actually be abusive to someone but when a 26-year-old person is acting the same way a child would and saying whatever comes to mind I believe actions must be taken to stop that and maybe just maybe then they will learn what it means that they are saying. People will always say things at the time to get a rise out of people hoping for to reconcile later, however, a reunion will only bring more controversy to the matter at hand is settled. I find satisfaction in making people realize the severity of what it is they have done so when something is undone I feel unhappy. In the short term people sometimes fail to …show more content…
People 's motives vary from good to bad so we shouldn’t be offended so easily because it could be a totally different scenario from their perspective however at times we don’t know how else to react to something because we have never faced such adversity in our lives and so we forget and don’t think clear so it becomes even harder to understand what we are initially mad at. Everyone else has had some tension in their lives in which they want to take out but tend some misplace their aggression at times and fall subject to criticism because they are unwanted by the people they are surrounded by. Everyone wants to be looked up to and be a leader but very few have the qualities required to be a leader. I want to reflect on myself as this paper demonstrates the hardships I have faced and how I look at a scenario and tell myself that it is okay to back down because we all make mistakes it about how to learn to be better afterward that really counts not the immediate response we get necessarily. I have no real hate towards anyone on this earth however at times I am flooded with emotion and lose sight of what I really stand for making me an angry man but if I can learn to accept people 's differences and tell myself that I am better than the way I am feeling I will be better off. So in my lifetime I can acknowledge how far I have come because