There seem to be stereotypes in place for how we all act and think so people will think they know us before any interaction takes place. Like Sandberg, there are boundaries set in place for us. We are expected to automatically have an attitude when we walk into a room. People will think we are going to be obnoxiously loud based on the stereotypes of African-American women. It is predetermined that we will have “baby daddies” and become single mothers instead of being married with children. There are a large number of assumptions about an African-American woman’s identity that was not made by the individual. The path of our identity ahs already been made up for us without much of our own input. How can people expect you to be different when every time you try they still generalize you with everyone else “like” you? Society will make you feel like an outside then wonder why you do not feel as if you fit …show more content…
Society does not want a person who is a part of the minority to be better than someone of the majority. Society creates a box for each individual; you are expected to sit quietly and know your place. For the individuals who decide to take a step out of the box that society created for them, they are criticized endlessly and frowned upon. An identity that you did not place upon yourself is incapable of providing someone with fulfillment. We find ourselves fulfilling stereotypes instead of striving to be ourselves. As humans we focus so much on what society portrays us as and eventually we fall into a cycle. Generations after generation of African-Americans are creating their identities based on who society expects them to be as a minority, instead of who they want to be as an