The social view on adolescent sexuality varies across cultures, societies, communities, and families. It is a controversial topic because some individuals perceive sexuality as an important development of a teenager’s gender and identity, while others are opposed to the sexual interaction of adolescence. In the book Not Under My Roof, Amy Schalet demonstrates that in the Netherlands, society provides information and support about sexuality to teenagers. The normalization of sexual behavior in the Netherlands has allowed teenagers to develop a greater control over their sexual desires. In contrast, America’s perspective of adolescent sexuality makes the experience unenjoyable to young adults.…
In Harlan Coben’s article “The Undercover Parent” (2008), he argues that parents should use spyware to protect their children. He says that there is a line on how it should be used, but not using it would be negligence. Coben believes monitoring a child through spyware is a good way to protect them from harm. After reading Coben’s article, I have found that I disagree with his opinion. In the article, as coben writes while referring to a child, he states clearly “Shouldn’t he learn now that the Internet is not a haven of privacy?”…
Chapter Six Outline A. REPRODUCTION AND SEXUALITY I. We already know that food and shelter play an important part in our basic needs for survival, but so does reproduction and our sexuality. Different cultures display fertility and sexuality in different ways. B. THE PROMISE OF FERTILITY A. Fertility Goddesses and Gods: I.…
The day a person is born is the day they are given rights, including the freedom of speech, happiness, and the ability to express there self. These rights are often taken for granted. However, some gay people are often denied these rights. In May-June of 2010, Stephanie Fairyington wrote "The Gay Option". This date provides information of how the world might have reacted to gay people coming out in that time period.…
Sometimes holding onto our fantasies and desires of how something could have been, ends up poisoning the reality of what it truly is. In the article, “The Myth of Co-Parenting: How It Was Supposed to Be. How It Was.” , author Hope Edelman discusses her desires of how she had imagined her married life to be and that of the reality that had engulfed her when it came to co-parenting with her husband, John. Edelman takes her readers on a journey of her life shortly after the birth of her first daughter, during the year of 1999 to 2000.…
The short stories, “Sex Education” by Dorothy Canfield, “The Other Foot” by Ray Bradbury, and “The Purple Horse” by Anne Schraff all have commonalities between the character’s actions and consequences. In the short story “Sex Education”, a woman named Aunt Minnie tells her story of an unfortunate event where she makes the decision to go into the woods after being warned not to. In the short story “The Other Foot”, the white people from Earth bomb their planet where they further ask the black people of Mars for help. Furthermore, in “The Purple Horse”, a shy insecure teenage boy finds the courage to stand up for himself after winning class president. The characters of Canfield’s story make their decisions based off of conflicts they face.…
Many stories throughout literary history resonate with their readers. Some enough to be deemed literary classics. Three stories which resonate with readers from all ages are “Boys” by Rick Moody, “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid, and “Lust” by Susan Minot. All three stories tell of the coming of age experiences that men and woman have, but do not share the same tone. Two in particular, “Girl” and “Lust” are told from the perspective of characters themselves, and “Boys” is told from the perspective of an individual observing the main characters.…
In Beside Oneself: On the Limits of Sexual Autonomy, Judith Butler talks about the correct path to attain human rights in connection to autonomy and community. Butlers struggle finding the right balance between the two in order to achieve success in the political arena connects greatly with the ideas of Appiah in Race, Culture, Identity: Misunderstood Connections, and my own personal experiences with the law. Throughout Butler’s essay, she struggles with the concept of balancing autonomy and community when it comes to human rights. Butler discusses the struggling that is fighting for our rights early in her essay, and she brings attention to the paradox it creates: “We have an interesting political predicament, since most of the time when…
Tom Wolfe’s essay “Putting Daddy On” tells the story of a father and son dispute. The essay’s character development, dialogue, and style all contribute to conveying a unifying message; the theme of this work is that people ultimately cannot control or save the ones they love from making poor life choices. Wolfe begins the essay by introducing his friend Parker. The author provides an engaging and detailed explanation of Parker’s background and persona. “I think Parker is a casualty of the Information Crisis” (Wolfe 280).…
A parents first priority should always be their children. In the memoir The Glass Castle, Jeannette Walls wrote about her daily struggles growing up with her parents. Rex and Rose Mary were unfit parents because they were inadequate role models, made selfish acts and failed to be concerned about their children’s safety. Rex and Rose Mary Walls were unfit parents because they were inadequate role models.…
“ Teenage sex in America” Tennage sexual behavior are issues of concern in the world .In a society like the United states where the subject of sex is considerate as taboo in many families, Amy Schalet in her essay "the sleepover question" claims that parents should communicate more about sex to their kids, she suggest that it is still possible for families to stay connected when teenagers start having sex. While, many people agree with her that a better communication between parents and teens is necessary for a better understanding of sexual intercourse , others suggest like Joy Walker in his study “Parents and sex education-looking beyond the bird and the bees” that sex education from parents matter but, it is also important that the media, the schools get involved and play their roles to solve the problem of tennage sex and the consequences. Thus, a breakdown of Amy Schalet text is indispensable .How Amy Schalet introduces and establish her claim , how she appeals to her audience will be subject of examination in the following paragraphs.…
In Jeannette Walls’ memoir, The Glass Castle, the Walls kids have unfit parents who couldn't take care of them or themselves. Rex and Rosemary are very unique characters because they show that they care for their kids, but they're not putting an effort into raising their children as parents should. The dad in the situation is an alcoholic who sometimes get violent with their mom and he doesn't know how to keep a job. The mom on the other hand is more of an adventurous person, who just wants to live like a teenager and rather be an artist than a teacher. Some of the problems the kids have growing up was hunger, not having much clothes, moving around a lot, not getting to shower, and having to deal with their parents.…
Past research has examined women’s sexuality by taking a closer look at their relationships across time and place. Same-sex partnerships between women have not always been considered abnormal. Before the Chinese communist government banned “sisterhoods”, it was common for women in the 19th century to be involved in loving partnerships and sexual relationships with one another (Peplau, 2001). And in 19th century America, Boston Marriages blossomed in New England. These marriages referred to women who engaged in a pattern of long-term, monogamous same-sex relationships (Faderman, 1981 as cited in Peplau, 2001).…
This paper is going to be about the poem, “Sex Without Love”written by Sharon Olds, who graduated from Stanford University and an author of several books of poetry. In the poem, the narrator is having a lot of questions and asking many things to the reader. It almost sounds like the narrator do not understand why people are able to have sex without sharing love. There are a lot of meanings in this poem and most of them cannot be seen from directly reading the poem.…
In Sex and Social Justice, Martha Nussbaum applies liberal feminism to the international scene. Nussbaum particularly focuses on women’s issues in the third word. Nussbaum argues that some cultural traditions pose an obstacle to women in modern societies. She continues by arguing that women should not be viewed as inferior to men, but equal. Nussbaum argues that injustice against women exists in: quality of life, emotions, religion, political liberty and participation, employment, education, and life in itself.…