Nevertheless, we need to spread this movement out of Hollywood to the streets, to everyday American cities and towns, to everyday people, to young girls and boys, to people of color, to elderly men and women, to everyone. Some people believe that catcalling is a compliment, that women only want to hear that they are “beautiful,” but I do not feel grateful for the “compliment.” I feel scared because I never know what the harasser's motives could be, because I lack the strength or skill to defend myself against adult men. A CDC study from 2012 revealed that almost 20% of women are raped in their lives. I feel afraid because I do not want to be the 1 out of 5, terrified of the possibility of being a rape victim. Why shouldn't we be fearful? An observation of mine is that the best way to deal with harassers is to ignore them, eventually they leave you alone. However, when women respond to harassers, the cat-callers use slurs and violent words, reinforcing the fear and expectation of violence in these
Nevertheless, we need to spread this movement out of Hollywood to the streets, to everyday American cities and towns, to everyday people, to young girls and boys, to people of color, to elderly men and women, to everyone. Some people believe that catcalling is a compliment, that women only want to hear that they are “beautiful,” but I do not feel grateful for the “compliment.” I feel scared because I never know what the harasser's motives could be, because I lack the strength or skill to defend myself against adult men. A CDC study from 2012 revealed that almost 20% of women are raped in their lives. I feel afraid because I do not want to be the 1 out of 5, terrified of the possibility of being a rape victim. Why shouldn't we be fearful? An observation of mine is that the best way to deal with harassers is to ignore them, eventually they leave you alone. However, when women respond to harassers, the cat-callers use slurs and violent words, reinforcing the fear and expectation of violence in these