Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work

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This week we have learned about cherishing our spouse. What are some ways that you are able to cherish your spouse? I will go into a few details that might help you.
Therefore, I am going to ask you a few questions. When was the last time you told your sweetheart how much you appreciate them?
When was the last time you told him that you love him?
When was your last date?

These are just a couple of questions that you may really want to think about. If you do not remember the last time, it might be a great time to tell them now.

This week’s lesson was on making a love map and he has a couple of games that he wants you to play with your spouse. These games are in The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. By; John Gottman
Here are

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