Children do not always realize their actions are unsafe or problematic. Sometimes they just need some guidance to help them understand what they need to do to calm down. For example, if a child gets angry at other children when they do something like poke them, then the child needs to learn to walk away. If a child usually gets physical when they are stressed, they must be taught the hands-down-power and practice putting his or her hands in their pocket when they feel they are about to hit someone. These techniques help the child calm down and think about what they need to do to control their emotions. (Zande, "Seven Positive Strategies for Managing Aggressive Behavior in Young
Children do not always realize their actions are unsafe or problematic. Sometimes they just need some guidance to help them understand what they need to do to calm down. For example, if a child gets angry at other children when they do something like poke them, then the child needs to learn to walk away. If a child usually gets physical when they are stressed, they must be taught the hands-down-power and practice putting his or her hands in their pocket when they feel they are about to hit someone. These techniques help the child calm down and think about what they need to do to control their emotions. (Zande, "Seven Positive Strategies for Managing Aggressive Behavior in Young