You have to understand that there are two sides to the coin and in this case, there is the emotional definition of sex and the physical definition and in your situation, they are both intertwined. For the quality or expectation of sex not to be up to par, then it, means that there is either a problem with the physical aspects of the sex or the emotional aspects of it and once I define them it can help with figuring out where the issue is arising from and coming up with a solution. When it comes to the different definition or expectation of sex, emotional sex is often regarded as lovemaking in pop culture and physical sex is often known or used when steams are needed to be blown off and it is often regarded in a more appropriate term as sex. When looking back at your letter, you said sex and not love making so it is only fair to assume that the heat you are lacking in your bedroom is the physical part of sex, which in turns would suggest that the physical aspect that maybe includes the intensity and energy are lacking and in order to figure out a solution, we have to look into your …show more content…
In your letter, you did not give me an exact problem why your sex is no longer steamy but if I have to make an assumption, then I would have to say that sex is no longer steamy because either the frequency in which you and your wife have sex has either reduced or the physical energy is not at where you want it to be. If the reason is either of this two, then the problem is that she isn’t meeting your expectations and when trying to talk to your wife about her not meeting expectations, you have to realize that you had to communicate with her that 's the only way she could have known if she was meeting expectations or