Self Assessment

Honestly, I’ve never really given these self-assessment tests or personality checks much attention. However, this particular one really has me thinking. After completing the assessment, my personality type according to the four letter score is ENFJ. “E” means I’m extroverted which means I’m an outgoing, sociable person. “N” means I’m intuitive which means I act off of my instincts. “F” is for feeling which means I’m compassionate and sympathetic towards others. Finally, “J” means that I’m judgmental. That last one I initially disagreed with because I try my hardest not to be judgmental at all. Thinking back on some past situations though, I realize that I have been extremely judgmental without even thinking about it. So now that my personality has been broken down into a four letter score of ENFJ and seeing what each letter stands for, I clearly agree with …show more content…
I would have to say that about 90% of my personality as it pertains to my decision making is instinctive. I like to refer to it as my gut feeling. There have been several situations in my life where my gut feeling has been correct and has led me to making the right decisions. A prime example would be a few of my past relationships. In my heart, I always wanted to believe that everything was good with these women. However, there was always a feeling that creep into my head that made me think. This thinking led me to do my own investigating to find the truth. Unfortunately, the truth was bitter. I definitely have always been compassionate towards others when it comes to their issues. I always try to place myself in their situation by telling myself that could easily be me. The ironic part about this though is that here is where the judgmental side of me comes out. I can sit back and look so deeply into someone’s situation that by the time I’ve come up with a solution to help them, I’ve picked them apart with my