Secure Attachment Style Analysis

I believe that I show a secure attachment style in my interactions with God and others. It is not a textbook secure attachment style because I find myself in different situations going between ambivalent and avoidant styles in a minor way. At times I want the attention from others, moving closer to them and trying to connect with them more. I am very content with where and who I am. I, in most things, feel that I am satisfied with myself and ability to interact with others. I have no problem with being alone and in seasons withdraw and seek personal alone time. I was raised in a loving home with my mom and me. She raised me with care love and support more than just roof and food but actual mothership.
In my connection with God, I have more on the secure to ambivalent side of thinking in the spectrum. I try to seek him and his ways on a daily basis, showing more positive thinking. I pray and seek him I want to feel him regularly and try to walk on His …show more content…
I do see that I need to work on trusting people more and being willing to be outgoing and share what is going on with me if I am under stress. It is not that I carry my boulders as small rocks but, that I wait and carry it till I find someone worthy of trust and helping me, which can be hard if I do not allow many to help me. I also know that I need to work on my connection with God. Even in those small moments of self-condemning, I need to check those thoughts so as not to beat myself up over mistakes. I know that God is the ultimate secure attachment style personality; I need to emulate Him in how he is forgiving, understanding, trusting, etc. If I keep working on these things, I will become more like how God wants me to be, a Secure attachment style, which is and should be my goal when coming down to connecting with both God and others, to be a better version of