Sarah And Teich's The Process Of Coming Out

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Teich being a transgender men mentions in his book that the process of coming out is critical. I have seen through Sarah what it means to be a transgender women and how society forces people to suppress their gender identity. But like sexual fluidity it hard for me to accept the fact that human beings are complex and they are many factors that drive us to become who we are. So being a comfortable cisgender straight male I feel no oppression because I fit the norm because it is what society accepts. But again I believe that by realizing that there is diversity in all aspects of life we become acceptive of those we considered different because of the exposure to new ideas. That said learning from Josh now Sarah and Teich don’t assume people gender

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