Sacrificial Love In 'Those Winter Sundays'

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She urges her son to keep on climbing up the staircase of life, not looking back or being tempted to stop and sit, hopefully trusting that things will get better and better. Both parents then through their words and actions teach their sons a very important life lesson. In "Those Winter Sundays," the son learns about the truth of what sacrificial love really looks like. In "Mother to Son," the son learns about the struggle of life and the importance of keeping on

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