Discussing with your partner about being tested for STD’s can be an uncomfortable and awkward conversation, but it is the best scenario for your sexual experience to know exactly what you are getting into and can contract by being a participant. Below I will discuss a conversation about tested. It seems that it is easier to just be sexually active than to be tested or have the conversation. Being open and receptive is the best way to go about this conversation not taking NO for an answer.
Me: Hey Serv, want to come over and I will make you dinner tonight, maybe watch a movie and just hang out?
Serv: Yea, that sounds like a plan but only if you make those Mongolian Beef tacos I like.
Me: Sure, I will put them in the marinade now.
Me: Hey! Come on in I was just finishing up the food now, are you hungry?
Serv: Heck yes I have been waiting for these tacos …show more content…
We get wrapped up in the heat of moment and have to scrounge for protection, it would be nice in those situations not to be stopped to look for protection. We can both be confident in each other knowing that we are completely clean and safe. Especially since some STD’s can lay dormant for years before ever knowing you are carrying a virus. This will protect us both, and if we ever get married and have kids having a STD can affect fertility as well as our health.
Serv: I understand and you describing it to me this way gives me a better understanding and I agree with you, if this is what will make you happy and ease your mind I will participate. I wouldn’t want this to be a factor of not being with you. You set up the appointments and let me know when and where to be.
Me: I am so glad that you agree with me on this. I think it will give us a stronger trust bond and we can discuss afterwards the results and go from
Me: Hey Serv, want to come over and I will make you dinner tonight, maybe watch a movie and just hang out?
Serv: Yea, that sounds like a plan but only if you make those Mongolian Beef tacos I like.
Me: Sure, I will put them in the marinade now.
Me: Hey! Come on in I was just finishing up the food now, are you hungry?
Serv: Heck yes I have been waiting for these tacos …show more content…
We get wrapped up in the heat of moment and have to scrounge for protection, it would be nice in those situations not to be stopped to look for protection. We can both be confident in each other knowing that we are completely clean and safe. Especially since some STD’s can lay dormant for years before ever knowing you are carrying a virus. This will protect us both, and if we ever get married and have kids having a STD can affect fertility as well as our health.
Serv: I understand and you describing it to me this way gives me a better understanding and I agree with you, if this is what will make you happy and ease your mind I will participate. I wouldn’t want this to be a factor of not being with you. You set up the appointments and let me know when and where to be.
Me: I am so glad that you agree with me on this. I think it will give us a stronger trust bond and we can discuss afterwards the results and go from