Rules of Friendship Essay

1752 Words Sep 15th, 2014 8 Pages

‘And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.
And Saul took him that day, and would let him go no more home to his father's house. Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his own soul.
And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was upon him, and gave it to David, and his garments, even to his sword, and to his bow, and to his girdle'. (1 Samuel 8:-1-4)
Each friend represent a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born yet there are rules guiding and guarding friendship. Ignorant of these
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When you are faithful to your friends with your heart, you will definitely be fruitful on the earth 'A man of many friends comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother' (Pro 18:24).
'Do not forsake your own friend or your father's friend, and do not go to your brother's house in the day of your calamity; better is a neighbor who is near than a brother far away' (Pro 27:10).


There are things which may need to be said to a friend that are not easy to say. I am disappointed by the sentimentalism that pervades our friendships so that we flatter our friends when we need to frankly rebuke them. A true friend is the one who is honest enough to tell us what we need to hear, rather than what we want to hear. 'A man who flatters his neighbor is spreading a net for his steps' (Pro 29:5).
If you cannot be corrected by a friend, you cannot be connected either. Those true friends that will actually connect us are the ones that will truly and sincerely rebuke us. To be connected is to be corrected. Genuine connection is as a result of genuine correction. 'Better is open rebuke than love that is concealed. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But deceitful are the kisses of an enemy' (Pro 27:5-6).
Why is it, then, that we seem to think that a wife or fiancée should never criticize her husband or fiancé? Is it not better to be corrected by our closest friend than by an enemy? Sometimes the kindest thing a

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