Romeo And Juliet Bad Decisions Essay

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Some believe that fate controls your life and what happens in it, others think that your decisions affect the outcome of your life. In the Shakespearian play “Romeo and Juliet”, two star crossed lovers from feuding families fall in love. Due to the actions they both take to pursue their love, they both end up dead along with many other people. The deaths of Romeo and Juliet were not caused by fate, but their own poor decisions. A poor decision that Romeo made was to go to sneak into the Capulet's party with his friends. Romeo went to the Capulets party to find new women to make him forget about his previous love, Rosaline. This was an example of a poor decision as it was Benvolio’s idea to go to the party, as said in this quote “At this same …show more content…
Before Romeo fights Tybalt he says to him “Alive in triumph—and Mercutio slain! Away to heaven, respective lenity, and fire-eyed fury be my conduct now” (3.1.120-127). Romeo is saying that he will let his rage drive him to kill Tybalt, but if he had kept calm and let Prince Escalus decide the fate of Tybalt , Romeo would not have been banished, Tybalt would have been exiled or even sentenced to dead, and Romeo and Juliet could have more time together before the wedding to be with each other. “Friar - Too familiar is my dear son with such sour company. I bring thee tidings of the Prince’s doom. Romeo- What less than doomsday is the Prince’s doom? Friar- A gentler judgment vanished from his lips: Not body’s death, but body’s banishment. Romeo- Ha, banishment! Be merciful, say “death,” for exile hath more terror in his look, much more than death. Do not say “banishment.” (3.3.4-14) These lines from the play show the outcome of Romeo's poor choice to murder …show more content…
“Take thou this vial, being then in bed, and this distilling liquor, drink thou off; When presently through all thy veins shall run a cold and drowsy humor; for no pulse shall keep his native progress but surcease no warmth, no breath, shall testify thou livest; the roses in thy lips and cheeks shall fade to wanny ashes, thy eyes, windows fall like death when he shuts up the day of life each part deprived of supple government” (4.1.93-102) This was a poor decision because Juliet could have just told her father about her marriage to Romeo and he probably would not have been that mad about the marriage because previously he said Romeo was well liked and is a good kid “And to say truth Verona brags of him to be a virtuous and well governed youth I would not for all the wealth in this town here in my house do him disparagement therefore be patient, take note of him. It is my will, the which if thou respect” (1.5.65-70). Juliet also should have told her father about her marriage with Romeo because if she had told him he would not have forced her to marry Paris and would not have got so mad at her. “Hang thee, young baggage! disobedient wretch! I tell thee what: get thee to church o' Thursday, Or never after look me in the face: Speak not, reply not, do not answer me; My fingers itch. Wife, we scarce thought us blest That God had lent us but this only child; But now I see

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