A unfavorable one for sure is when a boy is being manipulated by a girl, vice versa, girl using girl, or boy using boy. The manipulator in most cases desires dominance and to be in control to the point that the other person is no longer in control in what they do, say, and in some cases even think. An example would be when a thirteen-year-old girl is discovering who she really is by just learning that she loves to roll in the mud, wear jean pants and a cotton T-shirt, and read fantasy books. Then there is the mom whom she has to visit every summer who believes that no matter what that her daughter likes make-up, shopping, wearing skin-tight clothes, and that she hates all the things the daughter loves. This misunderstanding leads the mom into believing she 's right and doing everything in her power to make the daughter just like she is picturing her to be at this time of her life. It doesn 't help that the girl has no choice to listen to her mom for the mom refuses but to listen, plays the victim, and makes threats. This example shows that the main risk is that the daugther will never know who she is truly inside and this fact can lead to many things nevertheless the main one is …show more content…
There are plenty of examples, and one of them would be when a person makes another person feel somehow special. Imagine a young couple finding out that they liked the same things while also coming from two different worlds. The fact that their from two different worlds makes each of them feel special. They start talking, and the girl lets the fact slip that she loves Italian food and steampunk. The boy takes her on a date into an Italian steampunk restantant and the girl wonders how he knew. The date makes them both feel love and the talking also proves that each of them can be their true self 's with the other. This is a simple example, but it also shows this risk of showing a nice relationship by they “putting themselves out there” instead of acting like the other person was a part of the