Every individual wishes to get what they want. Most people are willing to achieve their goals with tradition ways. Meanwhile, some people choose to approach their obsessions by different method. There are always some conflicts between pursuing personal desires and choosing to conform.…
Summary of Adam Grant Adam Grant’s article, “Does Trying to Be Happy Make Us Unhappy,” discusses finding happiness. Grant’s thesis indicates that, trying to be happy will not make us happy. He evaluates an individual case by applying different happiness related theories. At the beginning, Adam Grant points out that searching out for happiness is not a correct way of persuading happiness.…
Beginning at the young age of eighteen years old, for some even earlier, we begin to question what we must do for the rest of our lives. This subject may seem frightening to many, including myself. We often question ourselves “What steps must be taken in order to live a successful, meaningful life?” In Wes Moore’s book, The Work, we are provided with knowledge as well as a sense of reassurance about how we must find and fulfill “a life that matters”. Just at the very start of the book, Moore includes a quote from the very influential Doctor Martin Luther King stating “Everybody can be great.…
Miserable: Without Love and Family “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness” is a famous quote from our country's declaration of independence. Everyone tries to fulfill these three fundamental rights, but there are times that a person doesn't have control of his or her life and doesn't see beyond what impedes him or her to pursue these rights. In addition, if that person stopped to think for a moment that his or her life can change and incorporate the fundamental rights, then that person will find peace. A peace that Jimmy Santiago Baca searched for in his young years, but didn't know where to find it until life gave him the opportunity to find peace in his writing.…
Society often views specific traits such as being homosexual or disabled in a negative perspective and says that in order to be perfectly content, fixing these traits is the right choice. Anyone who characterizes traits that go against social norms is not seen in a positive light and is usually shunned by modern society. Despite all the changes that are occurring to the breaking of social norms as each day passes, many still expect all people to follow old social norms and “be like everybody else.” In “Son” by Andrew Solomon, the author describes traits known as “horizontal identities” and argues that despite being depicted as something unfortunate, these traits can actually benefit those suffering from them. According to Solomon, someone with…
Book Club #5 Man’s Search for a Meaning Every book we read in class had its purpose. Tuesday’s with Morrie, taught us valuable lessons on the things that really matter in life, and dealing with death at an old age. Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes, showed us death at a young age, trials, and hope someone can have. Man’s Search for a Meaning, give us a different perspective of life.…
An individual may try to secure one’s own self-fulfillment and satisfaction, but all of the attempts may be futile, if the problems that are disturbing the individual’s self-fulfillment are from an external source. The individual may be forced to escape from the external source to achieve satisfaction, if not the consequences may be dire, the reason being is because, both satisfaction and self-fulfillment tie into purpose, and contentment. Without their existence an individual may lose purpose or contentment, and this causes the individual to struggle to maintain or gain satisfaction and self-fulfillment. In “Behind the Headlines” the author Vidyut Aklujkar demonstrates how an individual can face adversities in an attempt to secure one's satisfaction,…
Why do we as humans do what we do? Is there an explanation for our actions? What exactly are our actions and what goes into those actions? All of these questions can be answered and it all comes down to the point of happiness. Through text such as “Human Fulfillment” by David Cloutier, Moral Theology True Happiness and the Virtues by William C. Mattison, and “On Free Choice of the Will” by Augustine we will find answers and examples to these questions.…
Over the last few years I have heard a common concern arise regarding the stress levels of people in our country, and at the onset I initially placed a lot of responsibility on things such as technology, employers, and the demands of society. Yet, as I pondered this issue, and as more news reports and articles populated about people being their own contributor to stress, I started scrutinizing not only my own life, but also observing others. Our culture has seemed to breed the idea that humans are to glorify status, stuff, and schedules, rather than glorify the Creator of all. In the book titled, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality (2006), Peter Scazzero discussed the previously held notion of crafting a rule of life, with the hopes that one…
Susan Wolfs “The Meaning in Life and Why It Matters” is a short book of Essays containing commentaries by Robert Adams and John Kothe, and Wolfs responses to their commentary. Throughout the book Wolf focuses on 3 views to talk about when thinking about life, and objectively why it matters for it to be important. Those 3 views are the Fulfillment view, the Larger-than-oneself view, and the Bipartite view. After explaining these views Wolf then gives her interpretation on her own crafted view called the Fitting Fulfillment view. After Wolf explains these views, Adams and Kothe set up counter arguments to her view and the other views.…
According to Wolf’s Fitting Fulfillment theory, meaning “arises when subjective attraction meets objective attractiveness” (Wolf 9). While Wolf emphasizes the necessity of objective values in living a meaningful life, she does not provide a systematic framework in which objective values are defined and can be used to evaluate individual lives. Jonathan Haidt, one of the commentators of Wolf’s work, offers the concepts of “vital engagement” and “hive psychology” that are meant to solve the problem of objective meaning raised by Wolf. In response to Haidt, Wolf does not agree that objective values are superfluous or dangerous but instead refines her argument regarding the guiding role of objective attractiveness in human lives. While Haidt seems…
In Susan Wolf’s paper “The Meanings of Lives,” she discusses the qualifications of and the innate human yearning for a meaningful and fulfilling life. The foundation for her argument lies in her three criterion for meaning which include involvement, purpose, and success. She then continues her argument by explaining the opposite of each of these criterion as a stereotypical person. However, Wolf’s assertion suffers from being overly general in that it makes the assumption that all humans have access to the same resources and opportunities to perform the tasks required to be considered meaningful by her standards.…
Have you ever wondered what it be like to live in a perfect society? Everything you believed in and you strived for was done your way. Most people in this world believe in different things whether it is religion, a certain culture, ethics, or just a train of thought. Since we all people have different views, this can lead us to the violence and hate across the globe. No matter where you live or who you are, everyone’s manifesto is different in some way.…
Most of the decisions associated with mature individuals are based on character and not feelings. This could be described as the ability to live by values. There are inherent principles that tend to guide decisions. This enhances the capacity to progress beyond mere reaction to life’s options.…
Morality: An essential to life A Russian born American science-fiction writer and biochemist once quoted, “Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what’s right.” This statement generates a…