I communicated ineffectively and unproductively (Wood, 2013). I not only hurt my daughter’s feelings, I hurt our future relationship for a long time. On the other hand, some may say I did well in practicing tough love. The only problem is that in my culture, such practices are not validated as appropriate. I could not live with myself for the condemnation of the words I had spoken to my daughter. I still feel to this day that I owe her an apology to relieve her of any condemnation of spirit and soul. I felt for a long time that she owed me an apology for her irresponsible behavior. We really never made amends to each other. I still wonder if she still feels resentful of me for my choice of words, and my lack of commitment that night. Perhaps apologies are still …show more content…
I accept that I avoided any additional discussion with Janice to protect myself from incurring a nervous breakdown, or worse a heart attack. I felt the need to withdraw and collect my thoughts in order to deal with the crisis at hand. This was an adrenaline fight or flight situation, and I chose flight! I bailed out for my own sanity. However, I bailed out on my daughter who needed it me, and I should have chosen to collaborate in assisting my daughter to an immediate solution for the sake of her safety, and the future of our long-term