The honest relationship in love assumes the whole trust, truth, fidelity, willing to communicate, and to forgive. It is also characterized by closeness, connectedness, romantic attachment, sexual attraction …show more content…
Joe and Helen are experiencing a fake relationship. They cannot objectively love, because from the beginning they have placed an unusually high value on what one should use the other to achieve a specific goal, then making the person-love as an object, a thing to be possessed. They are unable to share anything and there is no confidence between them. They are intensively keeping watch and lying to each other, like two crafty people. They are dreaming out all the time and cheating on each other. They are no mind to hurting each other, and making daily fallacious tricks. They are not planned for future together, and in fact have not even thought about any form of long-term commitment. Both of them may lead in his/her own and independent lives, and have his/her own projects. Notice that, when the fake is about only one person in the relation, it could be difficult initially to detect the difference between the fake and even with the honest, because everything is shaming, simulating as a kind of imposture. In other words, one of them truly love with all his/her heart, but the partner does not seem to love at all while he/her plays love-game to get some